Hi Girls.

How are you all? Hope ur all well.

Wel...Matthew is 13 weeks old on thursday and i had my usual bleeding afterward for bout 2 weeks. A couple weeks after i had my first af. I used to be regular but its now been 5 weeks since my last period. Is this normal or could i be pregnant?

I havent started taking the pill yet because i have been waiting for this period to start! And its still not here!

TMI - When me and oh have been "doing it" he has been pulling out just before he ejaculates (sorry) and i've just recently been told that some sperm leak out before that. Is this true? I dont know.

So thats the story. Could i be pregnant or is my body just changing. I hope i a not pregnant cos its too early for that.

Love Heather

i forgot to mention that i have bottle fed from the begining.


xxxx

It's possible to be pregnant. I know someone who was breast feeding and got pg about 8 weeks after giving birth! Was she surprised!

Yes men do leak semen before they ejeculate so you could be pregnant, i would say its hormones and your body settling down again but then again you could be. Id wait another week or so and then poas to be sure. x

My doctor told me to wait until the first day of my next period before starting the pill. i was already on my period when i got the pack and she said to wait til the next one.

I am to scared to test. I have been getting cramps. i was due lats tuesday and for two days before and two days after i had awful cramps and felt awful. I posted about it on here thinking it was on its way but its not!!

Hi Heather hunny..

This happened to me after I had my 1st son... I was waiting to go on the pill after a proper period and it didnt come.... and i had got pregnant!! (unfortunately we m/c, but looking back my body just wasnt ready)

So it can happen hun, and yes, theres deff pre cum before ejaculation.

It is probably just your body settling back to normal cycles, but maybe buy a cheapy test hun, just to put your mind at rest! Let us know what you decide to do hun.
by the way.. stress and worry will only delay the witch from arriving you know... so try not to worry too much.

here if you wanna chat.. or via facebook hun.

caz xx

no offence but if you have unprotected sex you can get pregnant.
there are a million sperm in each little drop and they do leak before they come.

take a test and see what it says..
it could be nothing more than a late period, but you wont stop worrying until you know for sure


good luck
xxx

If its any consolation my periods have been all over the place after having Zara so it could be that the same is happening to you. I agree with the others though that it might be worth doing a test. At least that way you'll know either way

Good luck xx

i actually read through the different types of contraception, have no idea where i got the leaflet from but that 'method' is apparently 80% effective....so odds are pretty high, not doing it is the only sure fire way to not be pregnant. good luck, if i were you i'd just take a test that way you know either way and don't have to stress about the what ifs just the what nows!

hello...i took the test! BFN!!!! so relieved. where the hell is my af?? i wish it would hurry up. I do feel loads better now i know i'm not pregnant. I just couldnt cope. Will use the good old condoms until i can take my pill me thinks. no more scares!! xx

Just letting you know that af arrived today. I have never been so relieved to see her. so its just my body getting back to normal....thanks god!! xxx