09/11/2013 at 21:00
before we had our baby things were great (sexually) and when i got pregnant he was a bit scared at first until after our 12week scan then things got better, then as i got a big bump he got scared again. i accepted it.... let it go. then he hardly wanted sex after i gave birth.... i sort of let it go. but its been 6months now since i gave birth and he never wants sex... i climb into bed naked and he will cuddle me, but wont touch me in those areas, if his hand accidentally lands across my chest, he moves it to across my stomach. he gives me a peck before he leaves for work or before i go out... but never a real kiss. i asked if he loves me still and he said yes. but its like hes turned gay... hes really not interested in me, iv tried flirting with him, but hes not bothered. iv tried ignoring him to make him want me, he doesnt! i give up!! :'( has this happened to anyone else? when is it going to get better? how can i sort it i have asked him ofcourse why he never wants sex but he says hes never in the mood. iv tried nice meals, running him a bubble bath... but he just wont. even one morning he woke up and he was aroused and the baby was still asleep, other two children had slept at my mums.... it was the perfect oppurtunity!! and he went downstairs to watch tv
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