I will probably receive bad mummy of the year award but I gave mine jam. My dd was about 10 months when she first tried strawberry jam... it was actually given to her by her great nan. How on earth does any mum so no to great nan

, and she loved it. She's 4 now and hasn't had any terrible repercussions... no cavities, she is only on the 25th percentile for her weight, and it didn't stop her eating other things. That being said I'm sure you could find reasons not too.
On a savory note have you tried hommus? My three all really like it.
xx