am i rite to be annoyed n pissed off

hi there mummies...today is supposed to be a great day for me n my bby girl mia as she is 3 today..but oh no somebody as to piss on her paraid...my partners 16 yr old daughter was due for her bby on monday just gone..but he didnt arrive then at 7.30 this morning she had the bby...n i feel gutted n upset jus for the sake as its meant to be my bbys day..my partners daughter i cant stand her in the 4yrs i have been with him..she has treated me like shit when all i have done is do my best...she craves er dads attention al the time n will do ne thing to get it,,she has come between us so many time n played us off against eachother n we have ended up breaking up..so when we decided to give it another go i vowed she wont do it again..n now this happens..

please somebody tell me if im bein silly over this as it really has hurt my feelings that now its al gonna be bout her bby...

Difficult 1 Sarah........on one hand I think you do have a right to be pissed at her,if she is a genuine trouble maker,on the other I think surely Mia's dad will celebrate her birthday more than a grandchild?

Me thinks you're going to have to be the bigger person yet again by the sounds of things and rise above it. I know this will be difficult,but you need to be happy on this day for Mia,ignore your other half's daughter

Chin up chuck,and HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIA

Hope apart from the obvious she has had a wonderful day!!!! x

hi sarah,

happy birthday to your little mia! it must have been hard on you.

i will be piss like you but there is nothing you can do. cos your the other half will be piss if you make a big fuss. you r lose-lose situation.

good luck!

Agree with Rach on this.I understand why you're pissed off but  his older daughter is still his daughter,and you don't actually get to choose when you give birth.This is also the most important day in her life too.So he does have the right to be excited about his Grandchild,and obviously wants to meet him and see his daughter.

However,he also has two other daughters and when you're three your birthday is your own very special day,and Mia shouldn't have to fight for her Daddy's attention that day.

I think probably your partner is torn between his children.However if his older daughter is old enough to have a baby,is it not time for her to behave like an adult now,rather than attention seeking like a spoilt child.Your partner's Grandchild will always be a part of your family's life,like it or not cos they're your husband's family.It's up to you what part that is,but it's really down to your partner to deal with his older daughter.It's not a problem that will go away.It'll come up every birthday,and he needs to be fair to everyone,and whatever stunt she pulls to upset your relationship,he needs to support you too.

Hope you had a lovely day anyway