what kind of dreams do you have??
I used to have a dream dictionary when I was at school as was obsessed with finding out what my dreams meant!
I always have weird dreams, hardly ever the sort you think are real at the time.
The other night I dreamt that my mice had babies - bt they were baby kittens, dogs, rats and various other creatures - not mice!!
A flume?That's a slide isn't it?If I'm right can I have that dream tonight?
Aye I'd get that!!!!! Ok circle dresses and stuff!!!!
Better still-ASK HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
gonna tell hm about the dream, see what he sayes, hes always wanted a wedding so maybe that will convince him a bit more, really dont want the kids going school with a different name to me,
Are you on facebook racheL?
Maybe he's waiting till he thinks you can afford the wedding you want.Or maybe he wants to suprise you.Friends of mine got engaged on their 5th anniversary,married on their 10th.
We just did a shall we...yeah why not.Romance?What's that.
Actually it's our 3rd wedding anniversary today.
i just think hes tight, to worried about what money he can spend on himself (sorry getting bitchy hes been a nightmare the last few days flying into a rage throwing stuff slaming doors etc because ive been cooking from scratch not having as jo calls it cbs and take aways hes had to wash up, i wash pans etc as i go along but NOO not good enough)
Happy aniversary jo x
Yey happy anniversery Jo x
Lau I'm not on fb-have resisted so far!!!! Dya know I used to always say I'd never have children out of wedlock (told ya I should have been born in the 50's!) but I came to the conclusion I'd rather have kids than plan weddings and it took us long enough to have Tom anyway,if I'd left it who knows?
I thought it would be shameful tellin everyone they had a different surname but it isn't for me,not anymore. Think being a mum really has taken the stick I had up my arse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But I'm totally respectful of your choice and think it would be wonderful if you got married,I totally see why people do,but some take it far to lightly. And I'm fairly religeous and big fella isn't so there's excuse number 1 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As I say marriage is an institution,and altho I realise I need to be in 1-just not that 1!!!!!!
Is he related to my DH by any chance.Sounds like his double,spending on himself,only bcs is "real food" no matter that you stood there and cooked a real meal, and in our case we're spoilt we've a dishwasher so it's why's the dishwasher not emptied.
What about setting up a wedding account,when you're straight with whatever you owe.Wedding's don't have to be expensive.We had a nice registry office in Dorset and a lovely reception at a lovely country pub nearby.We didn't want a big do,I didn't want a big frock,I just got a nice dress,and one for my sister,my bridesmaid.The flowers we did ourselves,the cake was a wedding present from friends who are chefs/catering people.All that on a camping trip 3 years ago.It was exactly what we wanted.Didn't cost the earth.You can spend as much or little as you like.
for me its just about being a proper family, i was the only kid in my class that was an only child and lived with mum and grandma not dad i want my two to have a 'normal' family, and also prove everyone who said me and andrew couldnt last being long distance for so long, wrong! im a softy and easily upset and mum got married just before jack arrived leaving me as the only one with my surname (when grams divorced she changed hers) and it upsets me, my brother and sister have a different name to me and my kids, i just want to belong somwhere.
he wants to get married i know that, he calls me his fiance has done years but i said no rock no name! he did propose 3yrs ago but it DOESNT COUNT!!!
but like with everything else hell do it in his own sweet time
(hes back in favour just nipped to get milk from m+s and hes brought back flapjacks and rockyroads! )
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