Hi girls

hope you are all ok?  I haven't been on here for a while, i've been so shattered by the evening that i've gone to bed.  No change here really.  Husband won't talk about anything, says he doesn't love me but not sure if he wants a divorce?  I think this is the only answer.  He is asking me to see what benefits i'm entitled to because he will struggle on £400 a month, (all to himself)!  Where as the money he is paying me just covers mortgage and bills!  He doesn't ask after jake or how my hospital appointments are going.  Pretty selfish really.  He is taking jake out today, so i'll try and get back on here later after i've done the shopping, ironing, and packed the rest of his stuff!  Hopefully, he won't be taking jake to football like last week, he played and left jake with someone else on the sideline!  I was furious later that evening once i'd found out!  Anyway, hope you all have had a good w.end and a nice day today!  I wonder if it will snow? 

lol. xxxx

Hi Marie. Sorry to hear he is being awkward.

Thats terrible he left Jake with someone else not suprised you were mad.

No snow here just pouring with rain

Hi Marie,

Hope you Jake and bump are all well. What a tough time, stay strong, it sounds like you are doing well.

Pauline x

Hi Marie

Sorry to hear you're going through such a crappy time, can't believe what arseholes men can be sometimes, not surprised you were mad with him for leaving him with someone else while he played football

Hope you're staying strong and have some good support around you, including obviously everyone on here!

Big hugs, Lucy xx

Hiya Marie

Sorry hubbies still being an arse, you so don't deserve it.  I hope he gave little Jake a nice time today?

There was a lvoely thick frost on the ground this morning but then it spent the day tipping it down!!!

Thanks girls.  Jake had a lovely day while i did the ironing and tesco shop.  It was freezing here.  I have an awful cold and can't take a thing!  Have felt really tired, so not been on here much. 

I'm expecting a baby girl, i'll call her Evie Mae.  I hope Jake will be ok with the new arrival! 

I have started to pack my hospital bag, must finish it soon as jake was 3wks early! 

night for now. xxx

Hi Marie,

Sorry to hear your husband is being an arse over all this, and that is really shocking that he left Jake with someone else so he could play footie. I hope you gave him what for when you found out. 

Is Jake looking forward to having a little sister? That is a lovely name i love the name Evie and Mae was on our shortlist for Hollie's middle name but we then changed our minds to Hollie Marie.

Hope you are feeling ok. xx