I am livid!! (pos over reacting though)?

Sam, our neighbour from hell did all the normal stuff yesterday, shouting massively excessive noise and litter out the front all weekend then at 10pm last night her and some bloke were on the front lawn and started messing with a mini moto and driving it round the front! This was bad enough but it got a lot worse!

Short story, her and her mates went up to where they knew her ex was which is visible at the back of our house and taunted them than beat her exs car with baseball bats!! Unsurprisingly they gotchased by the ex, simon in his car and it looked at one point he was going to run sam down, he didn't though The car conked out directly in front of our ouse with its wheels on our lawn. The screamig and shouting was manic as paople all hits each other with bats, the car horn was going and simon attacked sams front door with a bat. I was so angry as this was feet from the kids room, i stayed in with them (they slept through it) while Gillan rang the police.

This was bad enugh but suddenly gillan came roaring upstairs saying there's a man in our garden!  Gillan was getting dressed and wanted to beat them man up (can't blame him) but i pursuaded him to scare him off from our upstairs window. I went to a different window and was just shocked to see a bloke in our garden and to my surprise i too lost it and screamed manicly at the bloke to get the hell away!!! Gillan was screaming too and the bloke looked shocked and fled as quick as he could. We think he was simply hiding from sams lot and he was calling the police but our gate was locked so he'd had to jump over the fence, hardly innocent and i was so mad. I was shaken and in tears  at everything that had gone so when sam appeared palying the vicitm i lost it a little bit with her too but managed to control myself before we fell out, that won't help. Am i overeacting to be so upset there was someone in our garden? I just used to feel so safe here and they've snatched that away

Sam told us that if social/police found this had happened while her kids were in the house she'd lose them and then they sneaked the kids out the back (at 11:20 pm) whuile the police were at the front!

It took gillan and i ages to calm down, i sat and wrote a log of it and will contact the housing officer today, a order is about to be placed on sam this week anyway that will mean bad behavious in the next year will result in court and probable eviction.

Sorry for the long post, i'm still sooo angry and shaken!

OMG You are deffenatly NOT over reacting.

Any one who is conected with THAT women you just cant trust.  Ok he was just calling the police but how did you know that!!!!!. I would of done the same.

Well big big hugs.

Let me know how it goes with everything.

LOVE becka

Your not over reacting in the slightest,i would have been the same. Its not fair on any of you to have to put up with this. Id be on the phone to social and tell them,have said it b4 and no its harsh but neither you or thoes poor kids should have to be made to live like it.

Big hugs and hope your ok,hope it goes well with the housing today.

xx

You are not over reacting Tasha, this is disgusting behavior. You have your kids to think about. Don't feel guilty for calling the police etc, she is the one that should feel bad as she is the one exposing her kids to all of this.

Pauline x

Thanks girls, i'm sitting here getting madder and madder, i've just left a meesage for the housing officer to return my call and emma, i quite agree, a call needs to be made to social, i'm just trying to get up the nerve to do it.

Just seen my other lovely neighbour, she was in tears abouti t all and is thinking of putting her house on the market immediately, i don't know how much longer we can all go on like this

Thanks for your support girls xx

Hi Tasha,

I really feel for you. That women is making all of your lives hell, there is no need for it. As for the man in your garden, I would have reacted the same, at the end of the day he was on your property uninvited.

I wish you luck with it all.

Take care, xx

Hi girls

Have spoken to the the housing officer and she was great, as soon as she recieves my log (emailing it to her tonight, had to edit it first as it's actually all my posts off here)!!! she will give Sam a home visit and issue her with a notice order!! This means she has 28days to change, anything she does in  this time i must log after that time she has to behave for 11months ANYTHING she does in that time will result in her going to court with probable eviction!!!!!!!!

the HO also said she will give Sam a choice this week, pack up and leave NOW and she can avoid eviction and all it's implications!!

Fingers crossed girls!! xx

Tasha, that is not over reacting!!!!

You have every right to be annoyed! I would be doing everything in my power to get rid of her!!

Hi Tash i have to agree with everyone else social services need to know as those poor little ones should not have to live like that, and neither should you and your other nicer neighbours

glad it went well with the housing officer and hope that sorts things out and she decides to go

take care x

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tasha i CANNOT believe this is still going on, and its gettign soo bad that they are still leaving that stupid woman and her troubles beside perfectly normal people who actually want to do right by their family.

she obviously only cares about the money she gets for those poor children, hence her sneaking them out, if she cared, she'd think a little more about her actions.

im so cross hun, and am worried for you.

ive said it before and i wont stop saying it, im at the end of the phone day or night, and you know my doors always open.

kas xx

Tasha you are def not over reacting I would have been livid too, my upstairs neighbours ar bad enough but yours sound 10x worse and I def think social services need to be involved its disgusting the way she's behaving especially with her kids around. You said about your other neighbour thinking of putting her house on the market, she would never sell it if the neighbours have such a bad rep, thats why I want my upstairs neighbours evicted cos we've got our flat on the market and we're never gonna sell with idiots like that as neighbours.

I really hope evrything gets sorted for you Tash, take care x

This is getting silly now, how much does it take for them to take notice, none of this should ever have been allowed to happen

Tasha im so sorry you and your family are having to go through this and i really hope she get evicted this time xx