Poor little Baby P

I expect most of you have heard of this in the news

Poor little fella.Why on earth the soical services never did anything is beyond me.

Hope they lock them up and throw away the key.

It was awful. I feel less bad for getting angry at Ayesha. I really shouted at her the other night and that was the owrst I would ever get with the kids. It boggles the mind to think anyone could do this.

My mum left my real dad before I was born because he was violent. It caused years of hassle but it was he best thing to do. He even tried to kill us both when I was 4 and when my mum was pregnant with my sister. Its only when you have kids yourself you realise the twistedness of it all, people without although they know its bad and feel sad esp those that want kids but it defo hits home when you have your own. 

Thats terrible Linz. Good job she left him. I just don't know what makes people tick.

I mean we all get days when we get mad and sometimes shout without meaning it,thats only natural.

Yes it does hit home when you have your own I totally agree

I have heard this to and had only read in the paper a week or 2 ago about a little girl who was left to starve to death in the house abouve the pub her parents run while they had a great time and got drunk,the dog got better treatment,regular visits to the vet for health checks. The midwife went to social and all they did was send a letter saying it had been noted that there was a concern but dropped the case after 8wks as there was no other complaints. She died bless her poor mite,found in amoungst the dog bits.

I only to well know how social services have let the system down massivly. Thoes that know i was chans mum for 9mths of her life and now altho shes back with my mum and brother the relevant chaeck have yet to be done dispite the court granting my mum full custody(on the say so from social that she had been CRB checked). When it wa noted and went back to court a full investigation was ordered by the judge and an independant person to carry this out(it is under way) but its to late. We already know of a local case where a baby was taken away from the mum at birth(said to be unable to care for her) and given to the nan,she was never CRB checked and she killed the baby at only a wk or 2 old. The mum in the mean time was declaired fit to care for the baby(a problem in comunication from the hospital/antinatal care was at fault)never the less this mum lost her baby for no reason.

This is a big problem all round,mainly because the staff at social services are not properly qualyified and dont work under assistance.Most of them are training on the job(playing with kids lives realy).

Lastly on this i hate to think that social wont remove kids in a harmfull enviroment as they think it will improve yet they are quite hapy to take a chil out of a loving,happy family enviroment and put them into care just because they are on the podgy side(7 kids have been taken into care for being obese and its said the parents are goin to kill them if they keep eating like this)what about the ones who suffer abuse by the hand that dont feed them and the ones that should.

So sorry if i upset anyone with this but to much goes unheard.

Mel that is bad of,my dad got the same and his now a massive bloke,my brother steared to go the same way till he decided to start his lifeguard course and is now toning up and lost all the weight,my dad however aint and is a sorry state(mainly coz his lazy)

But i think obese kids will live a life of what ever sort,where social services are concerned they have it all wrong.

chans social worker was put on her case(known as a permanacy team case)when she had only been working for social services for 8mth and her work visa run out,she was called to the passport office to hand in her passport and to probably be sent home but came back with a new visa.strange hu!!!!