quick read this, she's sent me a message

 my reply is something along the lines of......

if anyone can help me change it to sound better please do btw x

part of me feels sorry for you cos you really don't seem to get it. and part of me know's how this will end is doesn't really care tbh.
you see hun, i need to sort my side of things out, like i said to you before, you don't know what goes on up here and what he say's to me any more than i know what he's done with you. he's told me your lying, but god know's? why even question it now! thing is, i know when we really spilt, when we have sex, etc. i now know what he's done with you. i've chose to walk away from "me and him" but of course he'll always be here in our lifes, he's just left my house ffs and he's back in the morning.
some times if you don't know stuff it's easyer to deal with? maybe thats what your doing? i don't know? lets be realistic about it all now. how did you think it would go? sleeping with another womans husband while he lied to you about being with her, i can't even being to try to explain how it works in a marriage, but it's so different from what "love" is when your a teenager. this isn't going to be a easy he left her for me spilt, it's messy, and will always be messy.
anyway, i'm seeking legal advise this week, should be starting court proceedings soon, you should hear from my solictor in due course. i'm aiming to get your letters sent striaght to you as i don't trust ray to get you to sign the papers etc, plus i'm also seeking advise on injuctions. so thats a little bit of good news for you, well sort of. dont forget to declare your a co-respondant in a dirovce on any forms that ask you about if your involed in any court proceedings (know my mate had to when he joined the navy) could end up in trouble down the line if you get called to court and you haven't mentioned it.

You go girl! Well done on a well written response!

I am liking the fact that your reply is in proper english, although has a few mistakes which i would sort out so that you look even better than her! She writes like she is thick so i would have bamboozled her with jargon, looks like it wouldn;t be tricky!!!! 

changed it a bit

part of me feels sorry for you cos you really don't seem to get it. and part of me know's how this will end is doesn't really care tbh.
you see hun, i need to sort my side of things out, like i said to you before, you don't know what goes on up here and what he say's to me any more than i know what he's done with you. he's told me your lying, but god know's? why even question it now! thing is, i know when we really spilt, when we have sex, what he tells me about you (not real relationship cos he doesn't see you two going anywhere) etc. i also now know what he's done with you. i've chosen to walk away from "me and him" but of course he'll always be here in our lifes, he's just left my house ffs and he's back in the morning.
some times if you don't know stuff it's easyer to deal with? maybe thats what your doing? i'm the sort of person who likes the cards on the table truths, ask ray, he used to go off it with me for being to honest, said people don't always like the truth. lets be realistic about it all now. how did you think it would go? sleeping with another womans husband while he lied to you about being with her, i can't even being to try to explain how it works in a marriage, but it's so different from what "love" is when your a teenager. this isn't going to be a easy he left her for me spilt, it's messy, and will always be messy.
anyway, i'm seeking legal advise this week, should be starting court proceedings soon, you should hear from my solictor in due course. i'm aiming to get your letters sent striaght to you as i don't trust ray to get you to sign the papers etc, plus i'm also seeking advise on injuctions. so thats a little bit of good news for you, well sort of. dont forget to declare your a co-respondant in a dirovce on any forms that ask you about if your involed in any court proceedings (know my mate had to when he joined the navy) could end up in trouble down the line if you get called to court and you haven't mentioned it.
anyway, i've mammy things to do now, not somthing i'll expect you to understand

fix my spelling ect before i post it please. just re post it here and i'll copy and paste it

Just sent you a message!!!! with the old one not the new one!!

Oh yes!

Kristy, if you ever need any help putting the little slapper in her her place, i will only be too happy to help! I have quite a way with words, or so i am told!!!!!

I am going to bed Kristy, need painkillers and a lie down as my back is killing me!

Good Luck!!!!!  

Hi Kristy,

Firstly I hope you and the kids are ok. xx

Reading this post she sounds very young and naiive, and one day she may realise that. You did the right thing wording it how you did, like Caroline said she sounded 'thick' with those stupid abbreviations.

Take care, xx

she's sending me messages now asking me why i'm naming her on the papers lol

she doesn't get it, she really thinks it's nothing to do with her.

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That is a really good reply Kristy, good on you!

Afraid i can't post on facebook as i have come of it!

Morning Kristy

Sorry i wasn't about last night to join in this post but it sounds like the other girls provided enough support!!! I've just looked on your wall on facebook, and i've never seen so many posts put on a profile in one day and they're all full of lovely comments just for you (i added one too) I hope you know how much everyone is behind you on this and how much support you have hun xxxx

By the way, thast girls message to you was pathettic, so aggresive with no real meaning! your reply though was great! Very mature with enough jargon to scare the hell out of her! Like Pauline says it may well make her realise she's out of her depth with this one!!

Good luck hun and stay in touch xx xx