we are thinking of moving house

jade

29/09/2008 at 19:03

we have been away for the weekend down to kent to were some of pauls family live and we are really thinking about moving down there as some of you no we have had a lot of trubble with pauls daughter

last tuesday we had to go to court cuz she has not been going to school and we ended up with a fine of £150 but what i dont get is that she dont live with use she lives with her mum so we are getting punished cuz her mum cant handal her

we got a phone call at 11pm from pauls ex and she said that his daugter has been raped(now whan she was 5 she was interfered with by there friend so its not some think we talk about as it was a very bad time for them all) well it turns out that she was not raped it was the fact that she had sleeped with her best mates boyfriend and didnt want to admit it so when she told her mum that he had raped her she rang the police and she got scared so she came clean

so we are really thinking about moving we have really had enoth and i dont think [paul can handle any more

i think he is on the verg of a brake down and i dont no what to do to help

sorry to have gone on

jade

Caroline

29/09/2008 at 19:39

Jade, it sounds like your step daughter needs some serious help!!

I hope you get things sorted!!

jade

29/09/2008 at 19:46

well i have been in touch with socile service today and they are going to come out and have meeting

but if the attension is not on her she will find a way for it to be

izzywonkles

29/09/2008 at 19:56

Oh dear,poor you Jade.Thats not fair that you had to go to court and take the rap for what her mother should be dealing with.If she dwith you then i could understand it a bit more. You need to get together with her for a chat,or is that not possible??I know how hard it can be as I have an ex to deal with and 2 stepchildren. xx

jade

29/09/2008 at 20:14

we have tryed to be hounest she is a wast of space

when we went to court we were told to plead guilty and we would get a lighter fine well her beeing her she went not guilty as she had not got legale advice so you can see what we are dealing with

29/09/2008 at 21:30

Don't blame you for wanting to get away from it all Jade! Hope things get sorted out soon.
Pauline x

rileysmum

30/09/2008 at 09:06

Same here,i can see why you want to move away. It may be for the better for you and paul,less the stress on you and trying to make your own family.

Best of luck hun hope you are able to sort it out.x

SarahH79

30/09/2008 at 09:52

Don't blame you at all for wanting to move away. Hope you can sort something out soon. Take care x

CherylE

30/09/2008 at 18:32

Can see why you'd want to move away from it all Jade. Hope you manage to sort something out x x

Lucy

30/09/2008 at 19:53

hope things start to get better for you guys.. think carefully before you move though, cos often these things don't just go away because you move.. also will it cause problems with schools, jobs and things?? it's a big decision to make, don't let her pressure you into making the decision too quickly. sounds like she has lots of problems she has to sort out..

jade

04/10/2008 at 11:22

we have been thinking about moving for a while now i keeps coming up so will will have to wait and see

Twin1 Tasha

04/10/2008 at 12:07

Sorry you're haing a hard time Jade, i hope things work out for you soon, wherever you end up xx

Edited: 04/10/2008 at 12:07

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