I can really sympathise ((hugs))) Oscar has never been a great sleeper, it took forever to get him to bed, not unusual to be after midnight. Then he'd more often than not be up anything between 3 & 7, maybe more, times a night :( 2 years of very limited sleep really takes it's toll. But there is light at the end of the tunnel, the last 4 weeks or so it started to improve a lot. He's dropped his daytime naps most days which means he happily goes to bed around 7-7.30 and usually goes off quite quickly, though I do have to stay with him til he drops off. And he's rarely up more than once or twice a night and settles quickly, sleeping til 6 or 7 am. So hopefully things will improve for you soon too x