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19/02/2013 at 13:20
When you have date nights, or nights without the kids, do you go out or stay in and have sex?
We've got a night off Saturday and H wants to take me out somewhere lovely for dinner, I'm happy to stay in and have lots of sex and a takeaway I know if we go out we'll only have a quickie before sleep as I'll be stuffed to the brim with food and wine! Having said that we hardly ever go out and having a takeaway is pretty normal, having the house without kids isn't
19/02/2013 at 13:29
If the kids were sleeping out, the majority of the time we go out. We tend to ask for a babysitter for a night out, I wouldn't ask my mam to babysit for me to stay in but the other night PIL had the kids sleeping over and we just stayed in, it was during the week and we both had work the next day so couldn't be bothered, we just had an early night instead
If you don't get out very often, I would let H take you out. If you can't just be doing with a quickie, can you have some time before you go out? Obviously depending what time the kids are going out.
19/02/2013 at 13:35
I would go out if it were me. You can surely do takeaway and sex when they kids are in bed on any night? That's what we do! We rarely go out and I love eating out so that would be my choice!
19/02/2013 at 13:37
That's our problem Mossy we rarely have sex, or proper sex as I like it because the kids are always around. Having a teenager is a problem!
You're both right though, its nice to get dressed up and go out.
19/02/2013 at 13:42
I'd go out. We haven't had a date night for ages
But after being disturbed by our two year old this morning, i can see why the take away and lots of sex option is appealing.
19/02/2013 at 13:43
What time are you child free from?
19/02/2013 at 13:45
Not sure yet, probably late afternoon, 4ish. need to sort it out with Nina.
19/02/2013 at 13:46
Well, I would get ready in the afternoon, go out for a few drinks and something light to eat, come home about 8-9ish and do your stuff then!
19/02/2013 at 13:47
Go out for dinner. Have your session on Sunday morning.
19/02/2013 at 13:48
Oooh that's an idea. We could get ready and go straight from dropping L at her place. Didn't think of that. But then again I wanna get dressed up the more I think about it...
Of course, I forgot you've got a teenager so you probably don't much time in the evenings just the 2 of you. If you're child free from 4 could you do the sex thing before you go out or wouldn't that work?
19/02/2013 at 13:54
Can you not get dressed up in the afty?
19/02/2013 at 13:59
If you are free from 4pm, could you not dress up for your H, do your stuff, then you can still have a full night out and if your still keen then have your quickie when you get in.
19/02/2013 at 14:02
I think you have definitely got time to do both!!! You should get all dressed up to go out too, you deserve to show off that lush new body of yours ;-)
19/02/2013 at 14:41
You lot are all confusing me with the references to dressing up
H has said we should go for drinks, get me good & drunk, steak dinner then sex in the woods on the way home
19/02/2013 at 14:55
What I meant was. Get dressed up as in nice clothes in the afty, go drop the kids off, go out to the pubs and have something light to eat, then get home about 8-9ish. MrB's idea seems nice too lol
19/02/2013 at 17:27
If it was me, we would get the kids sorted, go home for sex, then dress up and go for a dinner and drinks, then home for more sex, followed by morning sex sunday!
19/02/2013 at 17:32
I would have a nice bath when the kids go, get a good ol' seeing to, get ready and enjoy a nice meal out! Then no pressure to dtd when you're stuffed (with food obv )
19/02/2013 at 17:40
19/02/2013 at 17:41
I think 1stbaby has the right idea! Happy to have Lou all afternoon x
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