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06/07/2013 at 17:45
Deleted as h not happy with it being on here
06/07/2013 at 18:16
Oh dear doesn't sound good and it does seem a bit quick, esp if hes pushed everyone else away and this woman has been sniffling around.
06/07/2013 at 18:22
Oh dear, it sounds as if he might be in a Vulnerable place and being taking advantage of. I hope it all works out ok, your poor H.
06/07/2013 at 18:30
06/07/2013 at 18:46
My Mum got with someone new, around 3.5 months (if that) after her previous partner died. She got a shite load of grief about it. Even though I didn't "approve", it had f**k all to do with me TBH, so I kept my mouth shut, and let her get on with it)
I know it can be seen as disrespectful or whatever, but he's a grown man. It is a shame he is rushing, but it may just be companionship, rather than true love... If/when it ends, despite how "obscene" it is, he'll probably need his family. Grief does stupid stuff to people.
06/07/2013 at 20:26
Hope this doesn't start a feud and that they come back having had a good chat about it.
06/07/2013 at 21:02
Oh no :( Sorry to hear that :( was hoping it was about that holiday!
06/07/2013 at 21:19
Oh no CP, I thought it might just all be alright.
06/07/2013 at 22:43
Oh dear, it must be so hard for you when it feels so raw still.
Fwiw a similar thing happened to my friend, although it was her dad who died 9 months after being terminally diagnosed. Her mum was remarried within 18 months, but explained it to my friend that she started the grieving process when he was diagnosed, not when he finally passed, and that we was acutely aware of how short life can be do she wasn't going to let this chance pass her by because others (including my friend) felt it was too soon. They're still going strong 5 years later and my friend is a lot better with it now as her mum is happy.
06/07/2013 at 23:58
I need the update now CP! Can't iamgine what it is?
07/07/2013 at 00:38
07/07/2013 at 06:17
I really want to know what else has happened now. Are they moving in together?
My friend categorically was not ok with it at the time, it took her a while.
I just remembered how her mum explained it to her and thought it may be useful for you. I'm not sure anyone can be in control of when they start grieving, but that's perhaps a debate for another day.
I really hope you, your H and SIL are ok, it's not a nice situation however you look at it.
07/07/2013 at 09:06
I'm really sorry CP, I didn't mean to pry, I just couldn't think what would be a million times worse
07/07/2013 at 11:25
Oh I missed the update but sorry that it's worse than what you expected
07/07/2013 at 11:33
Missed your thread cp, but can guess a little bit of what it was about and hope you and your H are both ok xxx
07/07/2013 at 16:02
Queen IgraineI'm really sorry CP, I didn't mean to pry, I just couldn't think what would be a million times worse
WSS. I hope you're all ok x
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