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14/02/2013 at 14:44
I know its a random question. Years ago I was less interested in it, could take it or leave it, so I can see other peoples perspective, but nowadays I am much more into it, probably a confidence thing.
14/02/2013 at 14:46
Yes I like sex. In fact I LOVE sex, when it's good. When we are just going through the motions I'd much rather not bother.
Totally random question.
Yes I certainly do and its typical tonight my H is nightshift and I have an itch that needs to be scratched
14/02/2013 at 14:47
I find the more i have the more i like it. TBH i could take it or leave it, i much prefer a nice cuddle in bed sometimes. I think the fear of being interrupted by the children has taken the fun out of it now, and it's more routine than before. We used to do it anywhere, anytime before the kids came along.
Scratch it yourself Snow WHite!
I;ve cancelled my spray tan as I wanna jump my H tonight.
Belle - How can you make it so its not going through the motions? Is it a case of jfdi and then you enjoy it?
14/02/2013 at 14:49
1stbaby I had thought about that but I think I'll just let it itch until I can get it scratched thoroughly, although he is on NS tomorrow night aswell.
14/02/2013 at 14:51
No jfdi is just going through the motions to me. I want to be able to ride him all night long if the need takes me, I want position after position, foreplay, toys, dressing up, the works. That's when I really enjoy it. It's the long game I enjoy, which causes us huge problems as we hardly get the time these days.
14/02/2013 at 14:55
Belle - Do you never enjoy 'normal' quickies or 'vanilla' sex?
SW - Can you fit it in with a quickie?
Chids - I know the feeling with 2 smaller children x
14/02/2013 at 14:57
Yes and no. I get off of it but it's just not the same. I'm very hard to please. Poor H!
I don't need to read these threads! I have no idea when I'll get my oats next
As to liking it, don't want to drag the thread down, but not always. I live in hope!
14/02/2013 at 15:01
Erm... I THINK I do, been so long, I can't remember...
1stbaby, no chance, I get in at 5.20 tonight, he goes out at 5.40pm, tomorrow will be the same.
14/02/2013 at 15:34
Yeah I like but I'm quite a selfish lover, I like it how I want it and when I want it. Mean aren't I!!
14/02/2013 at 15:41
I like it most of the time, there are a few occasions a month where I know H just needs his wicked way and still enjoy it but could've quite happily gone I sleep instead. H has a high drive! He is very unselfish thou so it's sort of always a win win and I end up sleeping better!
14/02/2013 at 16:21
Yes but I don't think it's the be all if that makes sense. To me it's physical affection in general.
14/02/2013 at 16:58
Belle I would have thoguht with your new body you would be at it all the time.
SW - Thats 20 mins, plenty of time lol!
Pip - I agree - I like the non sexual contact - the hugs kisses and cuddles too, although me and H are definately closer when we do dtd.
Munchkin - I am selfish too, and when I am done, I am done!
14/02/2013 at 17:05
I can take it or leave it a lot of the time but then really love it when we do. I think it's just pulling myself together, getting my confidence up then my answer would be a definite yes iyswim?
14/02/2013 at 17:06
Yeah I should be a bit less selfish, but if h had his way it would be all night every night, and porn sex all the time. I can't be ar5ed half the time, I'd rather an extra couple of hours sleep some days if I'm honest, but like I say when I want it I want it.
14/02/2013 at 17:30
Doesnt porn sex get boring though?! Even for a man?
14/02/2013 at 17:35
In a word I'd say NEVER!!
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