Aww you should just try and laugh off the milk thing I was a 40F when I had my first child and spraying all over the place my friends found it hilarious when I visit and they had to dive out of the way whilst I was breast feeding. Arrrgh get the kitchen roll quick! I have seen a couple of nice bra and french nix sets in Mothercare. Saying that I just look at my other half in disgust at the moment and the thought of feeling sexy within a month or so of having this baby is far from my mind haha. Instead of eating chocci what about having some yoghurts with chunks of fruit in I had black cherry last night was very satisfying. Thing is men are funny creatures if he is running from your boobs at the mo I don't think a push up bra is going to make any difference. I put on 4 stone having my 1st and he was 9lb 30z and I lost half the weight if birth I went from 12 - 22 when pg. God Im a G size now and 11wks who knows what size I'll be when the milk comes in let alone find a nice bra. I think I'll invest in a couple of cranes
Seriously though,,, your oh prolly picks up on the fact that you feel insecure and unsexy and gets cold feet. Try some sensual oils in your bath or something go Lasenza and get a nice nightie or top with a hidden support in or keep ya clothes on till you feel your old self again and invest in some Ann Summers crotchless nix ;O)
Good luck xjx