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05/11/2013 at 21:40
So I have been preoccupied of late as I have this big lump on my neck that the doctor can't explain. I took a course of antibiotics and there was no change and I had blood tests which came back clear. I have now been referred to a lumpy neck clinic and am waiting for an appointment.
E had her MMR booster today so I left work early to get her from my mum and dad only to arrive at their's as my dad was given the news from his doctor on the phone that he has prostate cancer. We don't know yet the stage etc but f*cking hell my poor dad.
Just wanted to write it down and get it out - sorry this is a total ramble.
05/11/2013 at 22:08
Oh blimey Al that's a lot to deal with and think about.
I'm sure the lump on your beck is fine and maybe a cyst or something? A clear result is good.
Your poor dad, do they know what the next step is? Treatment? Prostate is one of the cancers that has a high success rate for curing and getting rid, I have everything crossed and am sure this will be the case for your dad. Sorry to hear about your grandad but insure once he knows the next step he will be much more reassured, maybe than what your grandad was?
Big hugs lovely xxx
05/11/2013 at 22:09
Oh I'm sorry, neck! Stupid phone
05/11/2013 at 22:18
Oh darling. I don't know what to say, but please try not too worry xxxx
05/11/2013 at 22:49
Oh Ali I'm sorry that all this is going on, I'm sure the lump in your neck will be fine but no wonder your worried. So sorry to hear about your dad xxx
06/11/2013 at 07:37
Oh no Alsi, what a lot to be dealing with all at once. What's the next step for your dad? Please keep talking to us if it helps, unfortunately I think there's a few of us who have been where you are just now so will have an idea of what you are going through.
Hope you get the appointment for your neck through quickly xx
06/11/2013 at 13:01
Thanks ladies for your support, just removing part of the post now.
06/11/2013 at 13:14
sorry to read this. big hugs. have a cup of tea and some lunch and cuddles on the sofa x
06/11/2013 at 13:19
So sorry to hear this Alsi
06/11/2013 at 13:41
Sorry to hear about your dad. There is a lot they can do for prostate cancer these days.
Re your neck lump its positive that its come back clear. My brother had a lump on his neck removed some years ago and my gran had a lump called a goiter (not sure of the spelling). In both cases the removal was done without any problem. Hope you get a plan for this soon.
06/11/2013 at 13:56
Big hugs AlsiT x
06/11/2013 at 17:16
Thanks again guys. I called the doctor today as the lump is bigger and she said that the next clinic was not for a fortnight but that I could go the ward at the hospital tomorrow for 11am and a consultant will have a look at me when they can.
My dad is going in to speak to his doctor tomorrow to find out next steps and I think get a further test to see the stage/grade of the cancer.
Fingers crossed we both get good news.
06/11/2013 at 21:03
Oh Alsi I'm sorry, what a worry for you. Talk here if you need to , its good to talk xx
06/11/2013 at 21:05
So sorry to read this alsi :-( Hope the lump is nothing and that your dad gets the treatment quickly x
06/11/2013 at 21:06
Hey ML, thanks for that will give a wee update when I have more news.
Loving your avatar, a nice cheery one in this weather!
06/11/2013 at 21:08
I'm so sorry Alsi, what a time for you! I hope the slump turns out to be nothing. Big hugs.
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