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16/02/2014 at 04:59
Sorry to bother you all. I have an issue with the fact I repeatedly tell my partner that I hate him. He really annoys me, but when I think about making the break I just can't. I want it all to be perfect but I know in my heart it is not going to be easy. He has given up every thing for me, should I blame this on hormones or accept I'm destined to be a single mum
16/02/2014 at 06:38
What has caused you to hate him? Have you sat down and talked about it and the reasons why? Maybe he will be willing to change? Have you tried relate? Sorry to hear your not happy. Are you currently pregnant or do you have a child already? Hope you are ok
16/02/2014 at 15:40
You haven't given us much to go on so I've got more questions than answers. When you say "he gave everything up for me" do you mean he moved by choice from friends or family or a job to be near you or that you asked him to stop seeing certain people/doing activities he enjoyed so he could spend time with you? If it is the latter and it was driven by your desire for "everything to be perfect" then IMHO it sounds like you're trying to change him to fit your idea of what should be perfect and finding that that situation isn't much cop. Sorry if I have misread the situation and sound harsh but I'm worried for you, based on the detail you have given, about you wanting it to be "perfect". This is a hard standard to achieve even if you're completely happy with somebody and as a result I get the feeling there is a lot more to this situation than you have disclosed here. If you feel able to share (and then delete later if you want) I am happy (as will others) to offer an opinion to help you but on so little information I could say completely the wrong thing which won't help. Am I making any sense at all??
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