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05/07/2013 at 09:31
Hi all. I made friends with my next door neighbour( friend A) and we became quite close. She introduced me to somebody she had met(friend B) and we'd all regularly meet up. We all got on so well and the kids loved playing with each other.
Friend B went to college and drifted apart which is understandable, it's hard work looking after a child let alone college work on top. I kept in touch with friend b and we continued to text her. Friend A would never text friend B and would continuously bitch about her to me which was uncomfortable.
I text friend b and we arranged to meet, she bumped into friend a whilst on the way to my house and mentioned she was coming to see me. Friend A text me straight away and said 'I've just bumped into friend B, she said she was coming to see you?'
why do I feel I have to tell her everything, I have my own life too and other friends. I had to move house and still see Friend A but still feel she needs control over everything I do. Whilst luving next door, she'd be over everyday, text all the time ans it got too much. It's becomming so hard and I feel I need to make excuses if I can't afford to go and see her one week. I don't want things to be awkward and I want to get on with everyone. Just sick of feeling like I'm doing wrong all the time. I did say to friend A she should meet up with us all together, I just got a reply 'she won't want thatm she never texts me' friend B never texts me, I text her because I understand when you're busy theres not always time. Friendship works both ways in my eyes.
Please help....one super stressed and confused mummy
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