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20/05/2013 at 10:25
I moan at my H that he isn't as affectionate as I want him to be. When we first got together we were both very touchy feely and I am still like that but he is less so.
When we were out saturday night we were having a little kiss and I was touching him bum and my neighbour said 'cor you two, still affectionate after all this time'.
So when H and I were talking, we went through our friends and family couples and I think we are virtually the only ones that have a kiss or cuddle in public.
So are we normal or in the minority?
20/05/2013 at 10:36
My H is very touchy feely, says "I love you" numerous times a day (even infront of his work mates), where as I can do without PDA, and don't feel the need to say I love you all the time. My H moans at me for not being affectionate enough. He's such a sap, he always says we have swapped roles.
Even if we are watching TV, he'll want to hold my hand...
We aren't particularly affectionate in public or in front of people, there's a time and a place imo.
My Hs idea of affection is grabbing my bum or boobs and giving it the old "wahay" We do love a kiss and cuddle but never in public. I'll lilterally have to pull his face towards me to give me a quick peck on the lips.
20/05/2013 at 10:45
We still sometimes hold hands when we're out and about or husband will walk along with his arm over my shoulder occasionally. That's about as far as our PDA goes. We'll cuddle and stuff at home though.
20/05/2013 at 10:48
Oh god we are pretty embarrassing, After a bit of alcohol! H is very affectionate and attentive most of the time, he tells me he loves me a lot, I am aswell but I also like my space . We do hold hands and stuff if we are out and about but we wouldn't full on snog in public, unless as I said we were very drunk!
Very affectionate in private. We hold hands in public but nothing else (and quite frankly can't over here!) I always get a kiss and a pat on the bottom when he leaves or gets home.
20/05/2013 at 10:52
I can't hold H's hand, they are too big
20/05/2013 at 10:54
As a family we are all for saying 'I love you' quite often. We hold hands in public, on a night out we would sit arms round each other and kiss. We normally spread out on a couch each an night though and I can't sleep with us cuddling.
20/05/2013 at 11:03
H is very affectionate when we are at home. He's very physical but not always in a "sexy" way, like if we're sitting on the sofa he has to be snuggled right up next to me.
In public though he is very reserved. He holds my hand walking down the street but nothing beyond that!
20/05/2013 at 11:28
Not very. If we have free hands then we hold hands. At home we can barely go near each other all day because of the children. We'll have a hug and a quick kiss but that's it. When H is drunk though he gets a bit kissy kissy and it can be a bit much! I'm like an ice queen and have to remind myself to be affectionate.
20/05/2013 at 12:01
No we dont snog full on in public, I hate that, but I mean holding hands, peck on the lips, arms round each other x
20/05/2013 at 20:42
My H is affectionate. we hold hands in public, kiss, hug etc. I really like that he is still like this after 5 years.
21/05/2013 at 06:56
We're both affectionate to each other, even in public - hold hands, kiss, hug, "I love you", etc. H says that we'll still be like this when we're old farts.
21/05/2013 at 08:13
Not too much, now and again I suppose. We don't really go anywhere together so I can't remember if we hold hands. I worked out that we have been together 17 years this month so think we are doing ok!
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