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17/02/2013 at 21:29
I let B stay up a bit later and watch a film with me. Big mistake as he then took it as an opportunity to take the pee when it came to bed time. He faffed and he faffed and eventually woke his sister up. When U is woken up she screams and she screams and she screams. At this stage B is in his bedroom. He the comes in and says how am I supposed to sleep when she is screaming? ARRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHH! She has now been screaming for over an hour and I am at the stage where I have comforted, medicated (got it spat in my face, which I really don't appreciate), cuddled etc etc and now I am just doing rapid return which doesn't sit comfortably with me but it is either that or I find someone I work with and run off with them. One of the things that also pushes my buttons majorly (but I can't ever fecking react to and insteas have to calmly say I know darlign but you'll speak to him tomorrow) is the crying for Daddy. Yep well Mr Wonderful ain't here kids it's jsut shitty mummy.
17/02/2013 at 21:41
Ah QI I can't imagine how difficult it is for you but it will get better. Hope U settles soon again x
17/02/2013 at 21:44
You're doing fantastically
Every time the phone rings C shouts 'daddy' it grates.
17/02/2013 at 21:53
Oh QI, would it help if I told you that M asks for daddy every time I ask her - or tel her - to do something she doesn't want to? And he's only gone to feckin work. They just know how to push your buttons. Comfort yourself by knowing that they'll be asking for mummy when with daddy.
Hope U settles soon xx
17/02/2013 at 22:08
Ex did actually *** this mornign that B asks for me when he is with him. I wanted to make a snotty remark back along the libes of its a lot more difficult to deal with at 2am. but just nodded and smiled sweetly.
17/02/2013 at 22:14
Take comfort in the fact that in years to come they'll know it was you that was doing the 2am comforting and will know you are the one who will always be there for them no matter what x
17/02/2013 at 22:32
ugh. Bedtime stress is the worst. Hope both are asleep now x
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