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How many serious relationships have you/your H had?

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  • SnowWhitemumdrum
    SnowWhitemumdrum

    14/02/2013 at 19:36

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    H has been my only serious relationship, we go together when I was 19.

    I had on/off boyfriends, friends with benefits and one night stands but not really a serious relationship.

    H hadn't really had any before me either.  He was with someone for 6 months when he was at college and he was kind of seeing someone when we got together who he finished with straight away.

     

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  • AbnormalKitty
    AbnormalKitty

    14/02/2013 at 19:40

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    H was married before he got with me, and had one serious relationship before that.

    I was engaged twice before I married H, hence why I joined hitched in 2004, but didn't get married until 2011. So, we're each others third serious relationship.

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  • Slightlymad
    Slightlymad

    14/02/2013 at 19:42

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    3 for me... my ex H, my ex B/f and my current H

    for him there is only me

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  • Estrellita
    Estrellita

    14/02/2013 at 19:50

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    2 for me - I'm 2 years older than H and we were 21and 19 when we got together, and I'm his only one.

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  • Loumd
    Loumd

    14/02/2013 at 19:59

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    2 for me, and h is just me!

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  • Bellemumdrum
    Bellemumdrum

    14/02/2013 at 19:59

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    2 proper serious. A guy i moved away with at 16 - had dated him on and off from 13, then my H.

    2 for him too. The ex then me.

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  • Anonymousmumdrum
    Anonymousmumdrum

    14/02/2013 at 20:04

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    No real serious ones for me as I got with h when I was 19, I'd had boyfriends and h was always a bit jealous of the bf I had before him, absolutely no idea why, even now if I say 'o I seen xs mum' (if I'm up at my mums) h will huff and puff Laugh

    H had numerous other gfs but was engaged to one of them Eek although she went behind his back with someone else and left him in 2 grands worth of debt! He was really chuffed when he seen her 11 years later in asda (they moved away) and she looked old and chavvy and he had piled on the weight. H tried to point her out quietly to me but I let saying loudly 'where' Weep

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  • Beez
    Beez

    14/02/2013 at 20:14

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    2 for me. H has had three, I was the third. Not so much third time lucky haha!

    I'm not really a relationship person. I am quite happy being single in many ways, but who know what the future will hold?

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  • Quesera
    Quesera

    14/02/2013 at 20:21

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    One really, another I probably thought was more serious than it was and my H. H had a house with someone before me but I still tel myself he was my first ;-)

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  • QueenIgraine
    QueenIgraine

    14/02/2013 at 20:23

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    One for me and Ex is now on his second.

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  • Kellfi
    Kellfi

    14/02/2013 at 20:26

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    We are both H & I's 2nd x

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  • Anonymousmumdrum
    Anonymousmumdrum

    14/02/2013 at 21:20

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    Only one for me, with H, whilst he's had two.

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  • yoyomumdrum
    yoyomumdrum

    14/02/2013 at 21:26

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    Me and h are each others only serious partners as we got together when I was 15 and he was 16. Been together ever since, so 20 years this year!!

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  • Mrs50s
    Mrs50s

    14/02/2013 at 22:47

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    Hmmmm I suppose for me I've had 1 other 'serious' relationship (ie in adulthood, lived together, discussed getting married) and then I had 2 other long-ish relationship (1 year and 2 years) from the ages of 16-19.

    H had one teenage relationship, but then we got together when he was 19... I was 25!

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  • Pipmumdrum
    Pipmumdrum

    15/02/2013 at 07:00

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    I've been with H pretty much since I was 16 (we split for a few months when I was 20 and I had a few flings then) so I guess it depends on how you define a serious relationship. To me there was a boyfriend I had before that which I was with for about 6 months which in my head back then was serious enough to lose my virginity to him as a serious boyfriend if that makes sense.

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  • Deedeemumdrum
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    15/02/2013 at 08:12

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    3 serious ones, my first bf I was with for nearly 7 years (he was such a horrible person but I was young and didn't know any better), and I was with my 2nd bf for 3.5 years - I was engaged to both of them, bought a house with the second one, and also got as far as actually booking a wedding with him too, but then split about a year before it was supposed to happen.  3rd time lucky for me!!  I've been with MrDD for nearly 9 years now.

    He's only had one serious gf before me as far as I know.

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  • chidsmumdrum
    chidsmumdrum

    15/02/2013 at 08:54

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    H has had two, me and a girl he was with for 3 years before me.

    Me - just H.  There was no one before him that i'd class as serious, a few one nighters and a few dates but nothing more than that.

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  • heartnurse
    heartnurse

    15/02/2013 at 11:11

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    I had 2 serious relationships before I met my H. I met him when I was 29. He was 27 when we met but I was his first serious relationship!

    My previous relationships were 2.5 years and 2 years.

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  • Anonymousmumdrum
    Anonymousmumdrum

    15/02/2013 at 11:22

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    My H is my only serious, got with him when i was 16.

    My H had a few girlfriends but nothing he classed as serious.

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  • Frankiemumdrum
    Frankiemumdrum

    15/02/2013 at 11:22

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    I'm not counting relationships in school!! So, 2 serious relationships before my H (one only lasted 6 months but he was my 1st true love & I was besotted with him so it definitely counts for me!)

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