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10/03/2013 at 09:52
We do have a bit of a strained relationship but today I rang to wish her happy Mother's Day.
she asked who was cooking our tea so I said probably me as H has a hockey match for the old g1ts. She asked what we were having so I said roast chicken dinner hopefully followed by apple pie. Her response was 'watch your weight'!!! Wtf. There is no wonder I have such issues with my weight, no wonder I hate the way I look. Why couldn't she just say enjoy it like a normal mum would? Why does she know how to make me feel like sh1t every time ? I know lot of people will think this is a silly thing to get upset about but I just can't help it.
10/03/2013 at 09:55
sounds very thoughtless, but she probably doesn't realise how upsetting it is for you. Not a silly thing to be upset about, I'd feel the same. Hope you can enjoy the rest of your day with your family xx
10/03/2013 at 09:56
Thanks deedee. This is the woman who put me on a diet aged 7 :(
10/03/2013 at 10:00
it was a nothing comment, like why did she even feel the need to say it? I know its hard when you have had it all your life but just ignore her. Enjoy your lunch with your lovely family too
My mum did that too at about a similar age, but I know she thought she was doing if to help me - unfortunately I think it's part of the reason for a lot of my food issues but I could never say anything about that to her now.
10/03/2013 at 10:02
Deedee, that's exactly how I feel. I actually just want to scream at her that she caused me to be anorexic at 18 and then bulimic but she's my mum and I don't want to upset her :(
10/03/2013 at 10:25
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10/03/2013 at 11:13
Hugs. Sounds horrible :(
10/03/2013 at 12:17
Ahh mrs C big hugs. Try to forget about that remark, enjoy your day with your family x
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10/03/2013 at 17:41
stupid comment, try and ignore her and enjoy your meal x
10/03/2013 at 21:23
I hope you really enjoyed your dinner, sod the silly cow. My Mum says similar things to me, I just ignore her as she is mental!!
10/03/2013 at 21:31
Thanks all. It has really bothered me but I know she isn't going to change, Just eaten the pie now, and finished off the cream. Ooooh the calories
10/03/2013 at 22:09
Big hugs Mrs C, my mum makes stupid comments like that as well. I hope your dinner was delicious x
10/03/2013 at 22:30
That is a terrible thing to say. Hope you enjoyed your dinner. I too had toast chicken dinner, but followed by chocolate came with cream and then tonight I tucked into thorntons chocolates!
10/03/2013 at 23:22
I came off the phone to mine feeling c**p too. I get so annoyed that I let her get to me. But she does.
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