U is ill and it looks like slapped cheek. I ahd to take today off to look after her. I have forty pieces of coursework to remark that I ahd remarked on someone's advice and now apparentlyt hat advice was wrong. I have aprents evening tomorrow night and on top of that my line manager is planning on observing me tomorrow. Ex is being a twat again. When asked if he coudl look afetr U tomorrow is she is still ill the response was that he has a meeting. I am at the end of my tether with the cat weeing in the hosue and am at the stage of rehomign her and told Ex and got shitty comments from him. It wouldn't be such a stressed hosuehold if ti wasn't for him and I wouldn't be in thsi state.

ARRRGGGGHHHH!

I'm sorry things are crap. Personally I would reduce conversations to a need to know basis, very minimal and factual. If he doesn't want to look after her, you can't make him, it's unfair but eventually she will see he's a twat. If she's sick, you need to look after her, that's the way it is.

I know you must be knackered but can you remark when the kids are in bed tonight?

Big hugs x

I am going to have to but need to plan for tomorrow in case I'm not in and also for the lesson to be observed.

Wish I had better advice. I sympathise.

I wish I had made different choices. I still can't believe I am in this situation. Any of it. I don't know what to do with U - she still isn't well and I don't want to send her to nursery like this but I am worried about my attedance at work

I'm still hopeful that things will work out. Good things happening to good people and all that