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07/03/2013 at 11:05
Hi ladies, firstly, apologies for not being around much. Right, so I'm 39 in September and we have Rose who is 5. I've always said we'd just have the one mainly for financial reasons and also it nearly killed me having her and I had terrible pnd. I also don't want to look back and think I wish I had of had 2. So, last week I think I was ovulating and we dtd 3 nights in a row. So I guess I'm technically on the 2ww. Oh blimey!! Obvioulsy because I'm old it's very unlikely but you never know.
07/03/2013 at 11:07
How are you feeling about it? How would you feel if you were pg?
My mam had my brother at 39, I don't think 39 is too old to be having a baby.
07/03/2013 at 11:09
My friend was 41 when she had her son. 39 isn't too old at all.
07/03/2013 at 11:12
My SIL was 38 when she had my niece and my mum was 37 when she had my brother. I don't think it's too old at all x
07/03/2013 at 11:13
I think I'd be terrified but I secretly do want one. Most of my nct group had their first at 40 odd.
07/03/2013 at 11:15
Thanks ladies for saying the right thing!
07/03/2013 at 11:19
Oooooh Jenny how bloody exciting! Your a fab mummy to Rose, and she'd be an amazing big sister. eeeek!
07/03/2013 at 11:21
How exciting. 39 is not old to be having another baby, i know loads of women in their 40s who've had babies.
07/03/2013 at 11:30
What I need to decide is if in the likely case it amounts to nothing do I keep 'trying'?
07/03/2013 at 11:33
yes because you've said secrtely you do want another one.
07/03/2013 at 11:35
but the money!!
07/03/2013 at 11:43
How does your H feel about it?
07/03/2013 at 11:47
he's desperate for one
07/03/2013 at 11:48
What's holding you back then?
07/03/2013 at 11:58
Our place is too small and I don't know how we'd pay nursery fees but I suppose we'd manage somehow. I suppose I just feel it's crunch time.
07/03/2013 at 12:17
This post has made me smile, I am keeping everything crossed, you are a fantastic Mum and OH is very supportive then you are vitaully there, all the other stuff will work out, it always does x
07/03/2013 at 12:25
ah thank you. I'll keep you all posted obviously!
07/03/2013 at 12:41
This post has me like this How wonderful
Is it okay to admit that I had a dream you had another one a couple of weeks ago I was going to FB you as it was really vivid but then thought that might look a bit stalkerish. It was that you were pregnant!
07/03/2013 at 13:16
You are a fab yummy mummy, you would be fine as you have amazing strength and good friends!
07/03/2013 at 13:18
Is money really that much of an issue? What would you regret more, not tryong or not having another? x
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