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27/01/2009 at 15:21
Hi girls ...
i havent been on here in soooooooooooooooooo long so i just want to say hello to everyone ...
i hae been a very busy mum with the two boys and with my mum been in hospital till few weeks ago still on the run with her but thats life.,..
hope you all had a nice xmas and great new year...
i am despeterly wanting another baby looking at baby stuff etc cant get outa my head..so i have planned on sitting other half down this evening and asking him...
the thing is he might need a bit off convincing to get what i want as says doesnt want anymore till were rich lol that never going happen ..
just wondering if any off you have any ideas how to get around him ??????
asap please ...
27/01/2009 at 15:31
cant offer much advice as my second was a suprise and my partners allready booked for vasectomy!!!
all ill say is there is never a right time for a new baby and without sounding awful when you have a second your tax credits adjust aswell as chb so that should coer extra nappies milk etc, just have to look at where your wasting money, maybe tell him you will cut back here..... so you can afford......?
27/01/2009 at 15:37
thanks hun ..
i no i must be mad wanting another as i have two boys at the moment ...
my eldest is nearl 4 and youngest is 27 moiths old...
he would love it if i had another one if it happened by mistake like my youngest ..
but no fear that happing as i have the coil in since him..
27/01/2009 at 20:27
i guess you know your oh better than anyone so only you can decide how he would feel if you had a mistake!! but would be difficult to explain that one as you're going to ask him how he feels about another and you have the coil!
has anything in particular made you want another one at the moment?? i know we're planning on just having two, but if this one is another boy we may consider trying for a third (and probably have three boys!).. but i agree that money is a big issue, plus with three you need a bigger car.. i don't think we'll ever be rich either..
let us know how your chat goes!
hope your mum is okay x
28/01/2009 at 09:43
29/01/2009 at 00:05
just to keep you updated i talked to otherhalf lastnight ...
and we both decided the time is right and were going to have another baby ..
have to ring the doctor in morning to find out when i can get the coil out to start the fun ...
look forward to chatting you all
29/01/2009 at 17:21
cool!! guess he must have been all broody too glad you both decided together, have fun xx
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