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02/12/2012 at 20:44
Hi everyone, i have 4 gorgeous, healthy children 1 boy aged 7 and 3 gilrs aged 1, 2 and 5. I never used to want kids, certainly not 4, but i love them all so much. My youngest has only just turned 1 but me and my partner are thinking of trying for another baby. I know we would love it just as much as our other children and it would have everything it needs, but the stares i already get when i leave the house would get worse. The children are always clean and well dressed, but i assume i get stared at because i am only 24. But it has been my choice to have my children and i would never change that decision.
But with so many couples unable to have any children is it selfish of me to want another? We have been lucky enough to have 4 healthy children, should i just be thankful?
I would love to know what you all think, thanks
02/12/2012 at 21:00
02/12/2012 at 21:25
My two older children would love another brother or sister, they have been asking for months now, my 5 year old daughter gets slightly upset when i say no. We can support our children financially, just wasn't sure if 5 children was a bit much in other peoples eyes.
02/12/2012 at 22:18
03/12/2012 at 07:59
03/12/2012 at 16:59
My partner comes from a very large family, whereas mines is very small. It felt odd at first because all his family is really close and everything seems to be done on a much bigger scale. I would love my kids to grow up this way, knowing they have a big family that loves them all.
I spent alot of time streesing about money, but it's never as bad as you think, i used to over think things and panic, but now i have the kids i just let everything happen. I'm much less stressed now lol
Every child is a blessing and should be cherished x
22/02/2013 at 16:22
go for it if thats what you both want im expecting no6 x
23/02/2013 at 20:25
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