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07/02/2013 at 11:17
I am 21 years old , pregnant with my first baby I am 28 weeks prenant .
I live in the USA I came here about 8 mounths ago and I am almost 7 mounths pregnant :S I am from somewhere in the Middleeast there is a war in my country
I went through alot of suffring before getting to the U.S
I met my husband like a year ago
we love each other alot but I started to feel bored from this lifestyle
I am not working , I am not studying , I am not doing any thing unless sitting at home , cleeanning and cooking
I was a student in the university in my country I had a good social life I was readig alot , learning languages and computer programming , I had huge ambitions .
and now I have no friends no social life no permition to work or study cause I am even not a residence here yet I feel so bad & lonely any message or replay from you could courage me alot Mila mommy
07/02/2013 at 12:07
Hi Mila mommy, welcome to the site.
Sorry to hear you are going through a rough time (though some of it may just be pregnancy hormones) & are feeling low. Do remember though that you are doing something very special indeed - you are carrying a baby.
Whilst it may seem boring now (not working or studying) in just a few more weeks your life is going to change, you're going to be a new parent with a newborn baby to keep you busy. Once baby arrives you will be occupied with keeping them clean, keeping them fed, lulling them to sleep & generally keeping them safe & sound. Being a parent is a 'full-time job' in itself & can be very rewarding if you accept the challenge.
So for these remaining few weeks allow yourself to have some you time (go for walks in the fresh air, get your hair cut or have your nails done) whilst it is still just you & your partner. Relax with the tv, chat on here, maybe even see if there are some parent/baby groups nearby you can visit to meet other parents & babys. Life is what you make it so go enjoy yourself. Best wishes.
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