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12/06/2013 at 20:25
Hi my name is rani im 24 years old i was 11.6 weeks preg wen i miscarried on the 8th june 2013. Me and my husband had been trying for 16months, our baby stop growing at 4-5 weeks. If u r going thru or have been thru the same thing it would be good to speak x
12/06/2013 at 20:59
So sorry to hear of your loss this is my worst fear and why I feel it's unfair that people can't have a scan at 7 or 8 weeks. I understand it would cost a lot of extra money which is why they don't do it, but would save people a lot of heartache in getting so much further along without knowing.
hooe you are coping ok xxx
12/06/2013 at 21:53
Hey Rani, I'm so sorry for your loss. I have had 2 miscarriages. The first miscarriage was at 10 weeks (baby stopped growing at 6 weeks 3 days), I did not have an early ultrasound for that pregnancy. My second miscarriage I found out about because I went for an ultra sound at 11 weeks 6 days and there was no heartbeat...baby had stopped developing just the day before (11 weeks 5 days)...I was destroyed. For my second pregnancy I did have an early ultrasounds at 8 weeks 4 days and everything was normal, baby had a healthy heartbeat and everything.
Its an awful thing to go through, but you'll bounce back. Make sure you give yourself time to heal emmotionally.
13/06/2013 at 17:18
Hey ladies thank u so much for your words of comfort. What has upset me most is that my 16month battle to get preg was over now im feeling low and back at where we started. it so upseting has me and my husband have been very much excited for our news x wish us luck hopefully have a healthy pregancey soon xxxxx
13/06/2013 at 17:20
Charley17 im so sorry for ur loss it has broken me x i dont understand y it happened to me i heard lots of people get preg much faster after a miscarriage x
14/06/2013 at 00:47
I had also heard that people do tend to fall pregnant quickly after a miscarriage. That has not been my expience, however it does seem pretty common.
All the best to you and your hubby. Hoping you have a happy and healthy pregnency soon.
14/06/2013 at 00:54
Charley17 thank u so much, how long have u been trying x
14/06/2013 at 12:24
Hey bubz, we've been trying for 3 years. Had the 2 miscarriages. Its been about 17 months since my last miscarraige, so I'm having some testing done to see if there is a problem. I have a feeling there is really nothing wrong, but that I put too much pressure on myself and stress too much.
I know its the single most annoying things to hear, but I would sincerely suggest just relaxing and letting things happen. Getting pregnant the first 2 times was not that difficult for me and I think its because I wasn't obsessing.
24/06/2013 at 17:25
Hiya all, I know exactly what we are all going through as it happened to me also on the 31.05.13 at 7 weeks. I had a scan and it revealed a missed miscarriage.
Dont know if you all feel the same, but I feel that once Id got my head around being pregnant mother nature took it away. I can accept that it has happened but it doesnot alter now that I desperately feel I need to be pregnant again...ive heard that you are more fertile after a misscarriage.
Baby dust to allxxx
24/06/2013 at 17:59
Hi huni i no how u feel it took me and my husband tried for 16months and feel like my battle is starting all over again, i feel like i need to be preg too and prayinh its not to long. Hope we all fall preg soon as its heartache trying x
24/06/2013 at 18:03
Hiya, i know what you mean and they stress makes it harder to concieve. How long have you been trying for now? Im trying to stay positive,
24/06/2013 at 18:25
Well i fell preg after 16 months and miscarried twos ago . We have been trying about a week and a half i went straight in it hurt to much just to feel so empty. How about u x
25/06/2013 at 08:35
Hiya Bubz, well my miscarriage was the first pregnancy we had beentrying for about 6 months. We have started trying again after the bleeding stopped. Im trying my best to distract myself from thinking about being pregnant all the time its hard. Have only really spoken to my close family about it all you?
25/06/2013 at 09:30
I havent really spoke to anyone just on here im just hoping i do fall again soon. I been married 3 months been with him for 3years its been a battle to get preg now my struggle seems to have started over x
25/06/2013 at 09:39
I know its hard but try to stay positive. I just keep thinking that by having a miscarriage we can get pregnant so obviously our fertility is ok. Its just hard. Im due to go back to wrok friday after 4 weeks off following miscarriage, im feeling really nervous about facing people, just hope i dont cryxx
25/06/2013 at 09:45
Thats the worst thing all my frinends are expecting i havent been able to see them since the miscarriage. I do t like being around babies or anything pregant people its too much for me. X
25/06/2013 at 09:49
Did your friends know you were expecting? Know what you mean everywhere i turn there seems to be bumps or babies everywhere. Ive spent most of my time in the house with my husband , not like me at all am normally really out going feel like my confidence has gonex
25/06/2013 at 09:58
Yeah some did. Im really withdrawn from everything and everyone feel like im in a cornor and need to be away from everyone to understand myself what has happened. X
25/06/2013 at 10:05
Have they shown your any support? Know how you feel if your left alone at least yolu can cry when you want and think what you want when you want. Hows your husband been through all of this? Hes prob struggling the same the only difference is that its not their bodies. I feel let down by my bodie and that some how it was something i did but deep down i know that i had no control over it. Are you back at work?x
25/06/2013 at 10:49
I left work when i got marrird, my husband haS a good job he works 6 days A week 12 hours a day we would never see each other. his struggling too he was so excited but he never talks about it he dont want me to hurt anymore. We have no control hun its what is meant to happen will always find a way.
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