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01/07/2013 at 08:56
Has anyone given you a mark out of ten? Have you rated anyone? Is it something you'd actually tell someone?
I'm one for positive feedback but actually saying, no.
Don't worry, the MF hasn't marked me down - he was saying his last girlfriend marked him and also generously marked herself. bizarre, no?
01/07/2013 at 09:01
how do you mark yourself??
I don't mark out of ten no, but have given constructive feedback - and still do after 8 years together. He does too which is why its good I think?
01/07/2013 at 09:02
I've never given or received a mark. I've had compliments but if I was given anything less than a ten out of ten I'd be a bit miffed to be honest
01/07/2013 at 09:05
Weekender - I don't think I'd be able to say something negative. Which isn't good. I'd be too worried about upsetting the guy.
LB - I'm with you there sista. Full marks!
01/07/2013 at 09:06
Oh and weekender - she gave herself 8 out of ten?
01/07/2013 at 09:12
Well you know if someone is good or not but no I've never marked nor beenmarked out of ten, that I know to my knowledge anyway!
01/07/2013 at 09:14
Ha ha that's hilarious. I can't imagine giving or being given a mark out of ten. To be fair though I don't believe that people are either good or not strictly, it's more about the person that you are with as well and how you react to each other IMO.
01/07/2013 at 09:16
Pip - that is true. And without bring tmi - in that dept we're compatible so I'm probably better with him iyswim.
01/07/2013 at 10:09
I don't give negative feedback as such Beez, more like move a little this way or that way or I want it like this kind of thing. And it's not a reflection on him or his performance, it's how I'm feeling on a night....and he's aware of that. But what pip says is right I think - it depends on the couple how good it is.
Eight out of ten, good score
01/07/2013 at 10:44
ha no i wouldn't ever mark someone and tell them.
01/07/2013 at 10:46
No never and I have never been rated as far as I know. I think what Pip said is true too, what is good for one person isn't for the next!
01/07/2013 at 11:39
when iv been asked previously iv obviously just told them that it was the best id had regardless if it was or wasnt.
my h went through a phase of wanting to know if he was better than my ex and i made the mistake of saying it was different with him so my h then obviously became a bit obsessed about that (years ago btw)
8/10, i hope she told him where he'd lost marks
01/07/2013 at 12:26
No she gave herself eight out of ten!!!!
01/07/2013 at 14:19
im a definate 10 id say, all parties happy
what was her marking criteria?
01/07/2013 at 14:28
I have no idea. I'll ask that question next time.
01/07/2013 at 21:59
I'd love to know her marking criteria!
I've had to give H a few pointers in the past but usually I know it's good from his reaction.
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