I know, it's not like you don't want the child you are carrying, you just wish you had him plus a little girl

I felt the same and still do really, I would love to give my oh a son

I can really relate to alot of the girls on there, even though like you say most of them are wanting to add pink to their familes rather than blue.
I found it really hard to be honest about how I really felt too. It's only recently I've actually opened up about it.
It also makes me a bit terrified of even getting pregnant again to be honest. I'm not sure I could go through that rollercoaster of emotions again. I would love another baby and I know we will at somepoint. I'm only now getting to the point where I've accepted will we probably only ever have daughters. It's helped me alot talking to other women in the same boat.
Although my own mother is'nt so supportive, my mil is fantastic and would support us fully no matter how many kids we had. Shes just a lovely person

I feel closer to her than I do my own mother.
Theres no need to thank me hun, you've helped me alot too. I don't think subjects like this are disscused often enough.
My oh does'nt really get this site either but I don't think many men do!! lol!!
I'm always here if you need to chat hun, it's good to know I'm not on my own.
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