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14/08/2009 at 08:28
me and Rob have been talking for a while about the number of children we have/had etc. And when we first got engaged we talked about how many and decided on 2 or 3. Coming from a large family myself ( the picture at the end of my signature is all my brothers and sisters) I never wanted anymore than that.
So yesterday I was able to convince a soctor to cut my tubes, YAY its happening end of oct time, Im so excited. Rob had argeed and offered to get it done himself but this way is a less waiting list and less time to get the all clear. Afew weeks compared to up to 6 months seemed far better to us.
Cant wait to be ble to have erm relations again without having to stop for them horrible things. eww
14/08/2009 at 20:36
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14/08/2009 at 21:57
someone said, this is true, that I was wrong because of those that cant have kids. I feel for these women, I do. And that is why I have agreed to let the surgeon take my eggs for donors. But at the same time just because I can have kids doesnt mean I should have as many as humanly possible. I can care and provide and emotionally look after what I have. If I have anymore then I know I will not be able to care for thm as well I as should. I envy women Like you Jo who can have a large family. But my little head has far 2 many demons and I can only control so much.
sorry dont knw why I ranted there maybe its the baileys, lol
14/08/2009 at 22:09
I'm desperate for another,always wanted 4,but if I ever get to 3 may change my mind!!!!!!!!
I always envy people with lots,think it's cos they cope well!!!! You know what you want girl go for it I say!!
14/08/2009 at 22:36
15/08/2009 at 18:57
15/08/2009 at 22:40
Don't think you offended anyone,Linz.It's surely better you say no more than have half a dozen you don't enjoy,who drive you up the wall.There's a couple of large families at our school with Mum screaming at the kids,either threatening with or giving a child they've not seen all day a slap before they've been out of school a few minutes.Not to mention the language both parents and children,and there's one particular brood that smell like a farm on mass.They obviously don't cope that well.Lots of kids are very stressful,you just get used to it and do the best you can.There's no need for anger and violence,and no excuse not to take care of them.Not saying that'd be you,but there's nothing wrong with knowing when you've had enough.
Anyway,I thought I was the oddball for not having had enough,lol.
17/08/2009 at 14:54
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