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22/02/2013 at 10:07
Did you delete your post?
I saw it and big hugs xxx
22/02/2013 at 10:08
Was just about to post this.
We're here if you need to talk Pip.
22/02/2013 at 10:09
I did. I'm just embarrassed.
22/02/2013 at 10:11
Nothing to be embarrassed about at all.
It got to the stage with us, that I recieved a phone call, telling me an eviction notice had been served. I'm sure others have been in similar situations too.
22/02/2013 at 10:14
I saw the title but it was gone when I clicked on it, I was going to FB message you to check you're ok
You shouldn't be embarrassed pip.
22/02/2013 at 10:15
Didn't see the post but hope you are ok, we are here if you need to chat xx
I feel so guilty that I've made H pay for a private scan tomorrow because my head couldn't take any more.
22/02/2013 at 10:18
Can you speak to the mortgage company and see about interest only? Do you have loans and cards? You could speak to them as well xxxxxxx
I don't know what happened but you really made me feel better last week so sending you hugs Hope you're ok xx
22/02/2013 at 10:21
Yes he's trying to do some consolidation stuff at the moment to see if we can lower it all a bit. I don't think the interest only brings it down a lot but I might be getting it confused with something else. Friends of ours have been surprised at how high our mortgage is anyway when they have lower ones and more expensive houses. I think we had a high rate because we bought back in the day of the 95% mortgages with low deposits.
At the moment our main option is to sell the house, release the equity to pay off debts and then start over. We couldn't get another mortgage though so it would be renting which is even more expensive. We are currently looking at main area.
22/02/2013 at 10:27
Don't feel embarrassed Pip. Any chance you can have a mortgage holiday for a few months to help you sort things out? xx
22/02/2013 at 10:30
Money worries are awful, didn't see your post but have you tried speaking to CAB?
Seems like he is looking at everything he can.
When does E get her free childcare? xx
22/02/2013 at 10:31
H is calling CAB today to see what help there is for us, we've only just sent off a claim form for Child Tax Credits and Working Tax Credit as we didnt know we were entitled to anything. I guess he could contact the mortgage company.
22/02/2013 at 10:32
Positive steps then, that is good.
E will get her funded hours for the summer term.
22/02/2013 at 10:37
That's good you've Claimed WTC & CTC, hopefully they will back date it a few months?
Don't worry pip, you will get it all sorted.
22/02/2013 at 10:39
I didnt see the post, but get the gist of it.
I know a great FA who gives clear advice. He may not be able to help you, but may be able to guide you in the right direction?
Big hugs sweetie xxx
22/02/2013 at 10:40
Sorry I just feel crap this morning. I've been sick loads, and I'm stuck in waiting for a parcel collection for something I sold on eBay. The kids keep coming and giving me cuddles and saying they want me to be happy!
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