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19/03/2013 at 21:10
my H is going in for an op tomorrow, its a big thing for him and the outcome could really change our lives. I'm scared about him not being ok after, I'm scared about him getting really down like after the last op and being really poorly. I'm going to miss him so much, i'm also fretting about O starting at a new childminders next week, he's been so much clingier lately I hate the though of leaving him. E is going to really miss his daddy whilst he is in hospital. the hospital where H will be is an hour and a half away, I'm not sure when I'll get to visit him as I can't ask anyone to have O for me as he has chicken pox, and my parents work. I'm driving him there tomorrow but I can't go in with him because O will be with us as we have no option but to take him and even though H understands I feel bad for him that I won't be there.
I feel like crying.
19/03/2013 at 21:13
Sending you hugs - what a difficult situation to be in. Try to focus on the future when he is recovered and all is good again.
19/03/2013 at 21:18
Oh m-l, sounds really tough for you but you will get through this. Sending loads of hugs, and hope all goes well with your H's op tomorrow xx
19/03/2013 at 21:26
Oh ML, sound slike such a difficult time. I'm always on fb if you want a chat. Sending lots of hugs.
19/03/2013 at 21:36
Aw, ML, it sounds like everything has piled on you in one big go, I hope it all goes ok for your H, for you and for the kids. In the hallowed words of hitched of old - This too shall pass
19/03/2013 at 21:43
Fingers crossed everything goes to plan tomorrow.
I'm sure the new child minder will work out fine - and remember he didn't like the last one anyway.
Its going to be a tough few days but you will get through them.
19/03/2013 at 21:46
ML, wishing your family all the best for the next wee while. I hope it all goes smoothly. I echo Catarina's 'this too shall pass' and you know where we are if you need to offload x
19/03/2013 at 22:21
Just want to echo the others, I hope everything goes well tomorrow and your H is on the road to recovery really soon. Much love to you all xx
20/03/2013 at 08:54
20/03/2013 at 08:58
Oh lovely no wonder your feeling scared but he will be fine and O will be fine. Focus on the positives and remember we are here to help keep your mind off things x
20/03/2013 at 09:05
Hope it goes well ML xxxx
20/03/2013 at 09:10
Big hugs to you, I hope it all goes well xx
20/03/2013 at 12:57
Thank you all. Just dropped him off x
20/03/2013 at 13:27
Good luck with it all xxx
P.S. If you have anyone who could babysit O, ask them - I would happily have a child with chickenpox round as all mine have had it so it makes no difference to me. People are normally happy to help out, especially for something like this xx
20/03/2013 at 20:22
I hope the op has gone well (unless it is tomorrow) and echo re asking for help. I hasn't had CP but I have so would happily leave her with someone and look after yours so you could see H.
20/03/2013 at 20:28
Hope all is okay ML
20/03/2013 at 20:33
I hope it went well. Hope LOs chicken pox dries up soon so you can ask someone else to have him. Have you any friends who have children who've already had it you can leave him with?
Hope H is soon out and recovers ok x
21/03/2013 at 13:13
thanks. the op went well fingers crossed he's now working as he should and there's no complications. O was so grumpy and clingy whilst he was poxified I wouldn't have asked anyone to have him, apart from my mum as it would be too much hard work!
We went to our new childminders this morning so I could sign forms. Both the boys really like her (E won't be going to her regularly but there's a chance he might have to now and again) and we had a coffee and a natter and I feel SO much happier about O going there, so he starts settling in sessions on Monday.
Oh, and E is off school today with conjunctivitis!
Please please can we have some good stuff now!
21/03/2013 at 17:16
Glad to hear the op went well, hope he makes a good recovery.
Great news re the childminder as well, although not so good about the conjunctivitis - you really do deserve some good things happening now, hope you get them xx
21/03/2013 at 20:37
Glad the ip went well- hope its the start of good things to come.
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