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25/01/2013 at 15:24
Has anyone ever used a spreader bar or similar?
25/01/2013 at 15:31
Nope. That dominatrix / bondage stuff does nothing for me or H.
It scares me!
25/01/2013 at 15:33
Nope, no interest in that kind of stuff either. I tried tying H up with his tie a'la 50 shades, be both just laughed and felt daft.
25/01/2013 at 15:53
Not used anything like that - not sure I;d want to - I don't get on with the whole domanatrix/tied up things- just not for me.
25/01/2013 at 15:56
I've had to google it just to know what it is so no I've not used one lol. Xx
Me and my ex used to tie each other up quite a bit. I prefer to be tied though. Haven't really tried it with H - it feels like a different relationship...
25/01/2013 at 16:17
nope never used anything like that.
25/01/2013 at 16:27
No and don't fancy it either
25/01/2013 at 16:57
Wtf is a spreader? Or daren't I ask??
Oh well. Thanks for answering.
25/01/2013 at 17:30
Yes we have a set of two. Bloody expensive for what they are. In the right mood its great fun :)
25/01/2013 at 17:31
Have you Belle?
25/01/2013 at 17:36
Oh Pocahontas you recommend then? I've seen a bar with wrist cuffs that looks fun. Never used apparatus before but done plenty of tieing up and spanking.
25/01/2013 at 17:49
25/01/2013 at 17:58
Listen Belle, horses for course and all that jazz - we all know you are the Tracey Cox of Mumdrum!
If you do try it, let us know won't you girl?!
Lol seriously, I dont mind the idea of hands above the head tying up, not done in mind you, but I wouldnt want my legs spread that far - Id worry I would split in 2!
25/01/2013 at 18:44
Would love to but not ever tried it. May be a bit too Dom for H though who is waaayyy more vanilla.
Ah sex. I miss you
25/01/2013 at 19:00
I love that kind of thing! It's just not very 'H', I don't think he gets it.
25/01/2013 at 19:17
Great fun. The anticipation is brilliant and makes everything more plesurable. Although it's not for everyone and certainly not every time. However, for what they are, its cheaper to get a broom handle and some rope or something simular. That way you can have them spread as little or much as you want.
25/01/2013 at 19:23
Don't they get in the way a little Pocahontas? I've tried tying up and cuffs before but never seen these before.
25/01/2013 at 19:32
No, if you bend your knees whilst wearing them then all parts can be seen and umm got to very easily. It is very fun. We've got some ankle-thigh-wrist cuffs, now they are awesome!
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