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17/04/2013 at 20:59
Currently watching this.
Now if you have seen this programme this is genuinely what my Ex thought I was like AND I believed that I was like this. Now I can let the house get bloomin untidy BUT I am nothing like it (although I can udnerstand what is going through their minds IYSWIM?) I can't believe that I used to let him make me feel like I was as bad as that!
17/04/2013 at 21:06
I too let the house get untidy then I'll have a blitz, I'm just not a naturally tidy person. Put me in someone else's house and I happily clean and tidy. Ex was just using that as another excuse to belittle and control you. Now you can be as untidy as you like and clean when you like. When you start bottling and keeping you wee, then you have problems :-). I've seen it all before
17/04/2013 at 21:12
But you are right there are so many things which were wrong in our relationship but I was 'happy' to continue on.
My friend popped round last week and it is the first time she has been in my house (we've met elsewhere) in over 9 months and she couldn't believe how uncluttered the house seemed and far more open... and that is all down to me and I was so pleased at her reaction. It does make such a difference when you can take control of your life
17/04/2013 at 21:13
Good on you
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