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19/04/2013 at 14:24
Hi to everyone!
So. I dont know how to do introductions, so lets just get personal fast (: -thats the way I like it! Also, if this is the wrong place to post I am so sorry, just lead and I will follow.. unless there is glitter. Then I will come around shortly
I am supposed to O today, have been using opk this month but with no positive.. I'm 24, perfectly healthy been doing the bd pretty much every day.. and I am so nervous! I hope I'm getting these lingos right. I used to think DH meant "Damn Husband".. If you knew my mom you'd know why.
I'm super regular with a 28-30 day cycle and af came on 4/4 for like, 5ish days. Totally normal.
I think I just need a little reassurance that everything is okay.. I'm researching every possible thing that could be wrong with me because I didnt get a positive on that silly test.. I'm stressing myself out here! Going crazy.
This is my first month.. But I am seeing so many sad sad stories =/ I have a huge family and EVERYONE seems to be having kids.. I have 6 other brothers and sisters.. 46+ cousins on ONE side.. My family is huge, there shouldnt be anything wrong.. right?
20/04/2013 at 14:15
Hi Sweetheart, welcome to the site.
TTC is both highly exciting & yet stressful too. Whilst you are awaiting that glorious BFP it will feel like everyone else around you is announcing theirs whilst you are kept waiting.
Try not to google too much into what may/may not happen (you can scare yourself witless) & enjoy the ride. Whilst you can fall into the trap of thinking as much BDing as possible will up your chances, truthfully you can be doing too much (your bodies need time to recover & restock on those vital baby juices). Again the more you focus on becoming pregnant you can actually end up producing less fluids when you do BD because your focus has shifted from enjoying being with your partner to wanting a baby.
Above all else remember we are all different, some of us will fall pregnant easily whilst others may need a little extra help, there's no shame either way. Whatever road you take, however many ups & downs you have along the way you can find friendly support on here.
Visit the TTC or Planning Baby forums for other wannabe parents & share the fun. Best wishes.
20/04/2013 at 15:55
21/04/2013 at 22:50
Welcome! I'm also fairly new to this sites but used to use the sister sites think baby when I was ttc with my dd's but it's gone quiet on there. I fell pregnant after 6 months with my first without really trying and 15 months with my second. But that time I really stressed and it got me down. I have learnt from my mistakes and trying to stay much more relaxed this time. It's going okay but still thinking about it 24/7 lol. This time trying not to concentrate too much on my periods, ovulation and worrying over things and concentrating on getting fit, healthy, eating well and drinking water, giving up smoking and taking vitamins. its hard tho. Especially as time goes on. I'm on month 4/5 now.
Good luck and if you ever want to chat find me on here xx
29/04/2013 at 19:07
Thanks for responding.. sorry I forgot to even check this!
I have like.. 5 days before AF should be here. Soo hopefully she stays FARR away from me.
I think that I was reading my OPK tests wrong.. because every single one of them gave me two lines after about 10 minutes. I just expected them to show up with the control like a pregnancy test. I'm impatient as ever. But how can all 20 tests be positive =/ HM.
5 days! eeppp.
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