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31/12/2012 at 11:02
Hello, I'm a bit more of a lurker but trying to post more often!!
im off to a fancy dress NYE party tonight. My hubby is working so I shall be meeting him there as il go with friends. It's only a small gathering with friends only 8 of us altogether. I've known the men for over 9 years as they are hubby's uni mates and their partners for a long time as well. We're all friends and I really like them.
however I'm dreading it able cause my weight. My weight has always been up and down however last summer I lost quite a bit and got down to a 14 and began feeling better about myself. Since then fell pregnant, had lots of nausea so ate lots them had mc and was very ill following with glandular fever so comfort ate and I'm now a huge 18-20 again. I'm starting the cambridge diet on the 3d so I am doing something about it but I'm so nervous about the party and looking huge in my costume and having pictures taken etc.
hubby says I look fine in the costume and to stop worrying I've got to wear it as I paid for it!
Does anyone else feel like this at times?? I feel I live my whole life dreading things because I'm fat!
31/12/2012 at 11:20
Im exactly the same Minnie - dont really know what to say as nothing will help, but if you want a weight loss buddy you know where i am x
31/12/2012 at 11:48
Thanks suzie, its rubbish isn't it. I hate being fat yet I still comfort eat. Such a vicious circle!! X
31/12/2012 at 12:54
I'm the same too. I have zero confidence because of my size, which makes me more depressed so I eat more.
Ill be a weight loss buddy too?x
31/12/2012 at 13:29
Sounds fab, I'm determined not to get to this time next year and still be miserable about my weight. Is there a weekly weight loss thread on here? Perhaps we should do one?x
31/12/2012 at 14:45
Theres normally a daily weight loss thread we've all been ignoring the problem over Christmas! so there haven't been any threads. I've found it very useful and its helped me lose 3 stone this year. Have a fab time and remember that your weight should not stop you from having fun.
31/12/2012 at 14:47
Minnie, I'm the same, I totally understand how you feel.. I get the weight off and feel amazing, then stop dieting and it all creeps back on. I've hated seeing friends since Christmas as I have put on 10lbs and think people will be judging me. I suppose I think about my friends, and do I change how I think of them depending on their size, and the answer is no, most the time I don't even notice, because I see the person not the size or shape of the person. And if people are that shallow do i want them as my friends Having written that I think I need to keep this in mind more. have a fab time tonight x
31/12/2012 at 16:04
Thanks cedar I will start joining the weight loss threads in the new year.
Nala that's so true, I never think that about others. I'm sure I will have a great time when I get there! Let's hope so x
Hope everyone has a great night tonight. Bring on 2013 x
01/01/2013 at 11:45
Well I went and had a fab time! The worrying wasn't worth it.hope everyone else had a good night xx
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