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16/03/2014 at 03:33
A woman at work thinks I should ask to meet Ex's girlfriend and him for coffee. She thinks I would probably get on really well with the girlfriend and considering this woman gets to spend a lot of time with my children I should get to know her.
What do you think?
Personally I think I have been bloody well reserved and adult about the whole thing but I am not that mature to meet the woman that with the help of my Ex-husband ensured that I was left so stricken with anxiety that I struggled to work and is causing us to leave our home.
I tried to explain that I want to nothing her.
16/03/2014 at 05:11
What makes her think you'll get on really well with her? Does she know her?
I wouldn't want to meet up with and "get on well" with someone who had wrecked my marriage.
16/03/2014 at 05:20
Thank you! That was my view exactly. She doesn't know her. She has been honest and said she wants the gossip on her but I want nothing to do with her. And I know it takes two to 'tango' as they say but I hold them both responsible. I nothing him so why on earth should I want to meet her?
16/03/2014 at 08:37
No chance from me! And it sounds like she is just suggesting it to get some gossip.
16/03/2014 at 08:43
In ideal circumstances I'm really keen for new partners to show their face, be civil, put on a polite front for the kids, blah blah. I've done all that kind of thing myself. But in your circumstances? No chance. And you just do what feels right for YOU.
16/03/2014 at 09:12
No way, no how.
You've not got anything to gain from it as far as I can see. It's not worth it.
Go with your first instinct.
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