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02/04/2013 at 20:56
You recommended it for Belle's sister but I read it as well and so much of it rang so true.
This bit is from the section on once you have got away:
'Living with someone who is always putting you down, criticising you, controlling you and being abusive or violent towards you will have sapped your self-confidence and your belief in yourself. You may find it hard (or impossible) to make decisions, even about small things - because your abuser did not allow you to make choices for yourself.'
I look back at how I was when he had just left and this was so true. I couldn't make a decision about anything because I was so unused to doing it for myself.
I really didn't know how bad things were until after he had left, so sad
02/04/2013 at 21:20
you've come so far, you should be extremely proud of yourself x
02/04/2013 at 21:30
And now look at you. Its not been an easy road but you've made it through this hardest part.
02/04/2013 at 21:33
Ahh thank you
Still can't decide what to do tomorrow though
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