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12/06/2013 at 19:17
After Ex's protests that I hadn't listed the cats as missing anywhere and I asked if he could do that today and ring vets - he didn't.
He has then emailed me to ask if she has returned yet and do I still have the other cat? (After yesterday accusing me of putting the missing cat to sleep)
What would you reply?
Part of me wants to say what is the sudden interest in the cats for and how come he doesn't show this much interest about the children? Or to go down the route I thought you thought I'd had them put to sleep?
Possibly ending it with B was very upset you didn't phone him before school to wish him happy birthday?
12/06/2013 at 19:19
I personally wouldn't reply, maybe that's childish? Sounds to me like he is being a tad controlling/overbearing
12/06/2013 at 19:20
P.s. I hope your son has had a happy birthday!!
12/06/2013 at 22:45
I don't really see what any of it has to do with him so I would respond with your concerns about B. Surely the cats go with the house and he isn't in it....? I am not an animal lover so may not quite be thinking about this the same.
13/06/2013 at 07:33
Dont get into it with him QI. Only communicate with him about the children and contact. He left you. He has nothing to do with your life now. I wouldnt jave even contacted him askinf for help with the cats. The less you have to do with him the better x
Belated Birthday Wishes to B x
13/06/2013 at 08:29
I'm at a loss for words with this man, how can he show such concern for the cats and not the children?? I agree with belle says, just ignore him otherwise you will keep going round in circles and you don't need the stress.
13/06/2013 at 08:33
Agree with the others, ignore him, only communicate with him about the kids.
13/06/2013 at 08:36
WTS, don't reply about the cat. Poor B, hope he had a lovely birthday still xx
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