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25/02/2013 at 17:45
Not sure many people remember but when W died h's best friend (now ex) wife sent me loads of photos of her 8.5 month pregnancy bump and a huge email about how lucky she was to 'be meeting her angel soon' (about 16 hours after William died), anyway we totally culled them. So h and ex best friend have been back in touch since Mils illness just maybe ex bf woukd phone every month Or so, Anyway c*ntface has never been in touch as h asked her not to, so the ex bf is coming to the funeral on Thursday but thankfully c*ntface isn't coming.
So at the wake or the night after the funeral, wwyd if he attempted to speak to you? I know h will exchange pleasantries but I actually really don't want to, (in actual fact I want to say some really nasty things but I won't obv as its the funeral) but I honestly don't even want to acknowledge he is there like just completely blank him out.
Obv at the funeral I won't even know he's there but at the wake he will come to sit with us and I honestly don't want to even have to try to smile/say hello or anything
wouLs you bite the billet and act as if nothing has happened or would you just move away if he sat down and pretend I was going to speak to someone?
25/02/2013 at 17:55
I hold a grudge. I'm stubborn, hard nosed, and have a zero tolerance for twunts. So, for me, his presence would not be aknowledged.
He's your H's friend, not yours, so if you don't want to speak to him, then don't.
25/02/2013 at 17:57
I think I would just avoid him, move away, talk to others on the table. Not actively be rude but almost like he is a stranger to you, who you don't need to acknowledge.
25/02/2013 at 18:07
I would without a doubt just move away.
I wouldn't cause a scene but I wouldn't have any interaction or even make eye contact.
25/02/2013 at 18:10
I'm with AK. I wouldn't speak to him unless he addresses it directly with you and apologises.
25/02/2013 at 18:12
In this situation I'd never want to speak to him again. What she did was truly awful. I'd pretend he wasn't there, I certainly wouldn't exchange pleasantries and of find it hard to hold back all the things you will want to say. I'm sorry you'll be in that position CP. perhaps he will pay his respects and leave?
Pity I'm not going to speak to him or else I could have done 'faux sympathy face' and said if heard his first child has never slept more than 3 hours on two whole years, and ask if it had aged c*ntface at all
25/02/2013 at 18:52
I'm With AK, it's my mil I'm hard faced with. Long story but if she is ever in a room I can ignore here and make her feel awkward without ever saying anything (so technically I'm not in the wrong). You are the better person CP, take the higher ground, the he sits with you don't you move but brontosaurus make him feel welcome either, or that would be my approach. Good luck though, and lots of thought going to you and yours for the day anyway. When is it?
25/02/2013 at 18:56
brontosaurus make him feel welcome
brontosaurus make him feel welcome
I love this
25/02/2013 at 19:02
Que sera I'd no idea what you were meaning there
My h says iv not to keep calling her c*ntface because il end up calling her that to him (what a shame that would be )
Like the very mature person I am I made a few passive aggressive comments on fb about the French loosing the rugby and tagging my h so it would appear on x best friends news feed as c*ntface is French. [blush]
25/02/2013 at 19:07
I'm really laughing, I can't even think what it was meant to say. That is the best auto correct I've ever seen! There is an aunt in h's family that's refered to as the witch and for the life of me I can never think of her real name. Would that be a major faux pas CP?
25/02/2013 at 19:10
I remember this I agree with the others and would entirely blank him
25/02/2013 at 19:15
yep i'm with the others and would ignore and walk away to speak to someone else.
25/02/2013 at 19:26
I'd love to say whilst in a crowd of people 'o remember when u and c*ntface totally disrespected our dead baby?!' But its Mils funeral so will just ignore
25/02/2013 at 20:59
What a terrible situation to be in. Hopefully it will be the last time you ever have to see him. Totally blank, he is not worth it xx
25/02/2013 at 21:00
I'd ignore, like you didn't know him at all.
That's disgusting what she did what a cow.
25/02/2013 at 21:10
You could develop stress onset tourettes.
Rod she was fecking evil. I am awful for putting my foot in it but this women was vile.
25/02/2013 at 22:47
I remember this and it was totally out of order of them. I agree with the others and wouldn't acknowledged him. Sorry that you are having to put up with this
26/02/2013 at 00:08
I'm sorry CP. Yes I'd just ignore. What does your H think though?
26/02/2013 at 06:22
Some people are so awful - it makes my blood boil just hearing the story, so I can only imagine how you feel. I agree with what the others said - just ignore him. People like that are not worth one ounce of your emotional energy. Hope it all goes ok on Thurs xx
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