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30/07/2013 at 08:49
Hi, I suffered a 3rd degree tear 8 months ago due experiencing a very fast labour giving birth to my son. It has affected me quite badly psychologicaly and I am now scared to have sex because its still painful and I also fear becoming pregnant again. The OH doesn't understand my fears and it is starting to put pressure on our relationship. We always wanted another baby but now I am extremely reluctant. Has anyone else experienced similar feelings??
30/07/2013 at 09:21
I'm sorry I cant give any advice from experience but my sis in law had a very long traumatic first labour and tore right through sorry tmi from one hole to the other and had to be completely stitched up. She went on to have another and from what I gather it was a quick but uncomplicated labour no stitches needed. X
23/09/2013 at 16:49
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