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10/02/2014 at 20:14
10/02/2014 at 20:22
So sorry Hun but I know how u feel, u know how much I didn't want a c-section, I still cry about it now sometimes even tho I have my lovely baby I just wanna feel like myself again. Sometimes life throws us a curveball but it all turned out ok for me and it will for u too have faith in ur body and just take it one day at a time. Keeping fx for u chick big hugs xxx
11/02/2014 at 03:56
11/02/2014 at 17:35
13/02/2014 at 10:24
Thanks hon. That means a lot.
I'm feeling a bit more positive and DH and I had a huge chat last night. I think a lot of it is tied up with fear from last time. I think my main aim is that whatever we need to do I don't want to be as petrified as last time.
We are really looking at the posisbility of hypnobirthing because this ought to help us cope with our feelings from last time so they don't spill over into this one. (We both feel we are almost dreading labour and the first few months as it was so tricky last time...this is not right).
So the vague 'plan' is to keep an open mind, try hypnobirthing to deal with the fear side and what will be will be re VBAC or c section.
I have to accept I can't control what happens, but I can do my best to go into it calm, flexible and feeling confident we can cope with whatever happens.
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