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02/08/2009 at 12:32
Hi i'm new here & a bit scared!
I get married in october & my man & I want to start a family soon after, but although i do want kids i'm terrified, not quite sure what of though!
Did anyone else feel similar when they made the decision to come off the pill!
02/08/2009 at 14:10
03/08/2009 at 08:41
to be honest it wasn't till i fell pregnant i started worrying about how we'd cope, and the huge change in lifestyle for us.
i don't think there's ever a right time to have a baby, you just do and then get on with it, its amazing what you can cope with and how you just get on.
its the best thing we ever did, they drive me nuts regularly but i wouldn't be without them, my life was boring and unfulfilled without them
03/08/2009 at 13:07
Hi,the others are right-I tried for over a year to have my first-then literally shit it when that blue line appeared!!!!! Was terrified I wouldn't cope financially or emotionally,but you do.
I wish you and your hubby all the very best x Have fun trying
03/08/2009 at 21:49
I think with my first child I probably did worry about how we'd manage,where we'd live,but not until a way into the pregnancy.You have to just go with the flow.You'll probably sail through your pregnancy and I loved organising all the things baby would need,buying his cot,pram,all that's the fun bit.When baby gets here you just get on and do it,you'll know what to do.
05/08/2009 at 07:37
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