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01/09/2006 at 15:24
when did/will ur lo have there's?

kye's 13mths and as yet he hasn't had any since his 8 week check!! i just phoned the doctors and the woman couldn't tell me when they should be. the appointment for his mmr is apparently on it's way tho, so i know he hasn't been forgotten about somewhere along the line. i don't have a number for the hv either as all the numbers have been changed in my area and i wasn't sent any notification for the change to the hv number.

is there a chance they might do it at the same time as the mmr? i doubt it but thought i'd ask. the hv arranged the last development check with me as it was the same time as my postnatal check. i'm not worried about his development but i just want to be reassured that he's doing everything ok for his age.

marion
07/09/2006 at 22:58
i would say to them that you want it done,i thought all babies had to have the 8 mth check up
26/11/2006 at 18:50
Yeah you shouold definitely have had a check up between 7-9 months. Do you have a handbook that records everything in i.e you used to take it to the clinic when you got your baby weighed. in there it tells you when you should have check-ups and who does them. If i were you id contactthe doctors again to ask for an appointment if your concerned. There are health visitors linked to each surgery so they should give you a number for your hv. Tho to be honest all they do at the 7-9 month check is see if baby can pick up a small object off your hand!
Nicki_Sue
16/02/2007 at 11:05
Kieran had his 7 month check yesterday - what a carry on! The HV kept getting cross and going "Come on Kieran, pick it up, PICK it UP!" then "Come on Kieran, switch the block from one hand to the other ... COME ON!" He's 7 months old! No wonder he was laughing at her!! In the end everything got ticked and he's a "perfect and thriving" baby but honestly!
Nicki_Sue
12/03/2007 at 13:41
It is so important to have your developement checks,the hv came to my house to do my sons checks, my son said no words, did not point,did not interact with play and did not stack the bricks.my son was refered to a pediatrician and later was diagnosed with autism,because of his developement check it was diagnosed early and some progress has been made.EARLEY DIAGNOSIS IS IMPORTANT.Check out CHAT autism check list.
12/03/2007 at 17:00
Duncan had a 9 month one and I think they just dropped the 2 year one in our area but are still sending you a form to fill out asking you general questions about what your '2 year old' can do and cant do, etc and if they seem to think there is something to worry about or if you are worried about something - will then see you in person about it!
12/03/2007 at 23:10
Your right alots changed since dillon was two,but why have they done that with autism and other developement conditions on the increase.Delay on diagnosis can effect earley intervention etc child developement center ,portage,speech therapy and child phycologists. A parent may not be aware of simptoms especially if there child is verble,eventially that child might need a statement of special educational needs which will effect schooling.Its an example of one change which can effect our children forever.
21/04/2007 at 08:38
A friend of mine who lives up in Newcastle area - is having a nursery nurse come to her house to do her sons 2 year assessment (hes a few months over this age)...Wonder if thats standard there? - I dont think they do that here!
21/04/2007 at 23:39
That's what they do in worcs i think diffrent area's do diffrent things,i think i was lucky with dillon.
22/04/2007 at 08:42
Would be nice if they did that here...save you time! hehe
Sometimes its not always possible to get out of the house when you are supposed to is it! - And I think it helps to see a child in their natural environment as well! Duncan is almost a differnt child when we are out of the house - he goes quiet and all! hehe
23/04/2007 at 13:17
My check is next week hope it goes ok,it will bring back memories of dillon's check which he was refered cause he had sign's of autism.
23/04/2007 at 21:47
What signs were those hun?
I often worry things I see in my son are signs of autism - but I really think now its just OCD (which I have! - so maybe hes picked them up from me? lol)
24/04/2007 at 00:43
Now looking back where do i start,everyone has a diffrent story.

He was never interested in people or what was going on around him,he had some eye contact but a lack of it which confused us when we were told about autism.
He also never pointed to show interest in things,if you notice you always see other children pointing and he wasn't doing that.He was into rough and tumble games it would get him very excited, that was a way to get him to interect with us.
Dillon got very over excited about the tv like money adverts and teletubbies had him running around and jumping up and down out of control you could not stop him because he could not understand.

Dillon liked looking at toy car wheels lieing down on the floor just so focased on them,he would stare at lines on the floor,he would rub his head on the floor and windows and rocked his head side to side for no reason.

Dillon showed no interest in pretend play or creative play, but had good nollage of numbers colours and the alphabet by 18 months yet he had no speech, he was fab at puzzles for that age as well.

He would point on request if you asked were something was in his favourate first word book, that was the only pointing he could do, he would not point to real life objects.

Dillon had no interest in imaginary play didn't build with bricks and push toys around out side or ride on things like the other children.
He also would not awnser to his name when called or if you asked him to do something simple he would not understand.

He would also run off even into the road, he had no sense of danger.

Dillon dose have his funny food moments but we where told he eats quite well,but he would not cut with knife and folk he would use a spoon instead,some children with autism don't eat very well atall.

Dillon is quite a good sleeper and he gose to bed by himself but he dose occasionaly wake up and become restless but he gose back to sleep eventially.

When we take dillon shopping he dos'nt like it,it's sensory overload for him it's to many faces and voices and lights and colours it gets him wound up he starts jumping up and dowm and flapping his hands and people just stare at him, but we have to keep taking him because he has to get used to it,we stick to a routine now, so he nows what to expect.

Sorry ive gone on a bit but the signs the hv is looking for is as soon as they walk in to the room,your child should show interest in her have good eye contact.She would be looking to see if he interacts with her she might show him a book and ask him to point to something,she might ask him to brush dolls hair or some sort of imaginary play game like making tea with tea pot also stacking bricks,puzzles,threading toy's etc
She will ask how many words he say's and what his understanding is like.Autism dos'nt show it's self straight away it's quite hard to diagnose because all autistic people have there own traights but the symptoms are.....

Lack of speech or no speech{communication difficulties]
No imaganary play or lack of it.
No interest in creative play.
No eye contact or lack of it.
Sensory problems.
Obsession in stacking and lineing up toy's or objects.
Obsession with some subjects like thomas tank engine or trains etc.
Dislikes change of routine.
Hand flapping jumping up and dowm [known as stimming].
Eats only certain foods,dos'nt like brand changes some how they now!!.
I think that's about it ive proberly mist something out you should also look at the national autistc society website as well their's loads of imformation on there.
Hope all is ok, it most likely nothing to worry about.
Cindyx
24/04/2007 at 15:35
A lot of that does sound like my son - except for a few things.

Some things you mentioned that are exactly the same as Duncan are:

1). Doesnt point, never has and still doesnt look like he will....unless its something in his picture books, etc - he can also point on cue pretty much and has been able to do so from a young age (like pointing out where the zebra is on his animal plate - the ape, the leaf, the tiger)

2). He also does this: liked looking at toy car wheels lieing down on the floor just so focased on them,he would stare at lines on the floor,he would rub his head on the floor and windows and rocked his head side to side for no reason. (which you types)...This is what actually made me think he might be slightly autistic - because from about 8 months old he would line all his blocks up on the edge of the sofa, the table, just edge of things - and he would also sort them by colour - so all the red square blocks together, all the green triangle blocks together, etc

3). My son does eat well and always has, but is picky about brands, where his food is on his plate and how it is giving to him - for example, his yoghurt MUST be eaten with a certain spoon - if he is having rice and fish for example, the fish MUST be on top of the rice with the fish sauce on top of that (daddy put the fish sauce on the rice and the fish on top of that and Duncan went into tantrum and daddy gave up - when I clearly told my dh how Duncan likes it or he wont eat it! lol) (this is why I think more now its a bit of ocd? - which I have myself) so along with this - he also dislikes change in routine!

He does the hand flapping, but not the jumping up and down. Hes said some words, but only just copied - has yet to speak for himself (but sometiems I think I just know him far too well, he doesnt need to speak which could contribute to his lack of - as well as he is tongue tied)

I didnt shut the bottom stair gate today - so he went to go shut it (everything has to be shut for him!) and he couldnt do it just right and that really made him upset!

a lot of those I can point out in him - but a few I cant see in him either.

He does give eye contact. But in saying that, its with people he is familar with (though isnt every child wary?) - unless its a male. - ?
04/05/2007 at 15:21
Take a deep breath,im not a doctor at the end of the day but a caring mum with a son with autism who wants to make people aware of the condition,and to no the signs to look for.
It maybe autism signs he's showing but i think youre very worried about it and you should speak to a Doctor or health visitor about it.Goodluck Cindyx
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