Hi all thanks for your suggestions. If Im eating an apple Kai always wants some but hasn't really got the teeth to bite any off, but as soon as i give him smaller pieces of it he doesn't wanna know, even if I eat them too, he picks them up and tries to put them in my mouth! I gave him a bigger bit today so it looked more like a whole apple if that makes sense. He chewed on that for a while but then got bored! We'll get there in the end I suppose.
On a positive note he's doing very well with feeding himself, he eats his porridge on a morning all by himself (makes a huge mess but he's very proud of himself!)
I think Im gonna give the smoothie idea a go, Sean likes them so Im sure Kai will have one if he see's hid dad having one
Luckily he really likes veg, one of his favourites is a carrot aand lentil soup that I amke myself, we had it for lunch today and he wolfed it down as always, he was picking bits of carrot out and putting them in his mouth making lots of Mmmmm noises!