All my children have hated the hair washing.Even the no more tears stuff stings ,just a little.There is no magic cure,just have to do it as quickly as possible and get it over with.
Some of mine have been able to hold a flannel over their eyes by about three.Once they start to understand to sit still and put their head back it's easier,till then I just do the best I can,as quick as I can.We use a jug so we count how many.We make a bit of a game of the shamppo bit,we do hairstyles,and we play candles with the bubbles.It's the rinsing my lot hate,but it takes just a couple of minutes.Once it's over they're happy again.
Arthur announced last week he doesn't cry when I wash his hair anymore,cos he is 5 years old now.