Hi Everyone,

I just wanted to come in and say goodbye

I know i haven't been here long at all but i got my AF today on CD54 and i am just so relieved.

Me and my OH have been talking and we are going to class October 25th 2009 as THE day we started trying for a baby. I have been trying for 14 months with no results. 10 months into those 14 i had all sorts of tests done and nothing was wrong with me. But for 12 of those 14 months i have been soooo stressed - i started a new job, my dad had heart attack, my puppy nearly died, me and my OH went through a rough patch, i was having anxiety attacks.

I have started thinking that the stress i have been feeling could be the reason i have not conceived. I am going to start using my CBFM as from tomorrow and my pre-seed and if i do not conceive with this in 12 months i will go to the docs.

Good Luck to everyone on here, i will keep checking in for BFP's.

Lots of Love Tink xx

Good luck lovey, hope the new approach works xx

Good luck hun, xx

Thankyou, i hope it works but i may be back in here next xmas. xx

Hey tink...that does all sound really stressful hon, am sure it hasn't helped. My first cons told me that despite my husbands sperm problems, my stress was probably the biggest factor stopping us conceiving. Really hope you manage to relax and that it brings you that long-awaited BFP! Let us know WHEN you do xx

Thanks TBD - my OH thought that maybe i was in denial at first and should get checked out but the only thing the doctor has found wrong with me is stress.
So at least if i start TTC with a clean sheet and do it properly this time without worrying then if there is something up i can prove to the docs that it isn't stress causing it this time.

I will be looking out for your BFP too xx

Sorry you have had such a tough time of it honey but I think your new approach and fresh start is a great idea and I really, really hope it works out for you!! xx

Thanks OP - so do i.

I think i am afraid to admit defeat and go through all the testing etc but i am only young so if i give it a proper go for a year then i will know for definite!!! Good Luck to you all x