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Long term TTC & infertility
27/07/2016 at 09:35
I was TTC for 4 years. And absolutely nothing has changed. After medical examination doctors said that my analyses were fine and the problem lay in my partner. Together with my husband we have tried almost everything… from herbal treatment, different pills and vitamins to yoga. We were told that smth had to help us and we just had to do it regularly and believe in it. You see, when you can’t get pregnant for 4 years putting a lot of efforts into this, devoting the whole life to it, you’re ready to believe in everything what can hypothetically help. Our couple wasn’t an exception. At the same time a lot of my friends and colleagues became parents. Indeed I was emotionally over because of my feelings then. I was so jealous of my friends’ happiness. Every time I realized that it was like “What’re you doing right now? They’re your best friends, everyone of them is ready to lend a helping hand while you think that deserve a baby more than any of them.” And now I’m not even sure what exactly person I am. When you try so hard and don’t succeed, it is very complicated. You start looking for some hidden problems inside you. After some time my husband came home and said that he was going to leave me because he met other woman which got pregnant… A blow under the belt… My life was ruined. Of course we got divorced. I know women that forgave the unfaithfulness of their husbands but for me personally it is impossible. So, now I’m single and appealingly infertile. Nobody knows why. But I want a baby sooooooooo much. Since childhood I loved children like nobody else. My doctor advised me to use modern reproductive methods like ICSI/IVF. But I don’t even know whether it is possible for single women… I don’t know for sure what to do.
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