He's really being fantastic at the moment!

We said that when we was prescribed clomid, that we was going to put everything in to it, and then if i didnt get prg we would know that it wasnt through lack of trying.

Before clomid, having sex was such an effort and sometimes i felt like i had to persuade him. We both work and are tired when we get into bed. Its too late and its normally the last thing we feel like doing

HOWEVER!!!

NOW hubbys being amazing, its like when we first got together, we are making time to have sex, its fun again and he's coming on to me now and putting the work in lol!!
He's really determind that we are going to get our BFP in the next couple of months.
I feel like we are on the same path and we are working as a team.

I'm on CD14 tomorrow so hopefully i'll be ovulating for the 1st time ever!!!
Its wried but actually feel really happy at the moment, we are laughing again and i'm loads more relaxed

Sorry you're probably not interested but i just wanted to tell everyone
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that is fantastic news to hear i hope it goes your way xxxxx

Aw Jess that sounds great, the begining of your story sounds much like me and my dh. I hope we follow the same path when I finally start my drugs xx

I think it's lovely! Best of luck!
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Awh that's great Jess, know what you mean about the sex hun, we've certainly fallen into that trap. Good to know it's easy to get back to how you were.

Good luck xx

Im sure this rings true for lots of us hon,

Its werid i read about so many lovely hubby's on here, and my hubby is also fab, so kind and thoughful, it seems so unjust that the loveliest couples struggle so much when they would make great parents (i include myself in this :lol

seriously though, it does seem that way, prehaps it helps that if youve faced infertility you start to think about what matters, you dont take each other for granted cos you start thinking " will we still be okay if we end up just us" and also you have to be kind to each other cos life is tough enough.

I know lots of my freinds with children have crappy boyfreinds/ husbands who take them for granted and well bascially are rather selfish. I know that when our time comes we will make the most of every moment, im not saying life will be rosey, but i can guarentee, you wont catch us arguing who's turn it is to do the night feed!

I think your is a lovely post, pleased your feeling happy, and the BD is back on track!

Gem x

thanks for ur cheerful n up lifting story its really cheered me up n given me some positve hope i have pcos n had had it that i know of for 2 n hakf yrs now n since been told that bd on my part has been none existant if ya know wot i mean and been feeling down alot coz my doc keep saying i have to loose weight b4 they will do any thing n that does nt help we r going to c a fitness instructor next tuesday n start going to the gym more

GEM - I 100% agree with you, i was crying last night because i know what great oarents we will make and how no-one could love their baby more than us. Also all the abortions, teenage pregnancies that happen but we are in a loving marriage and apparently we're not good enough to have a baby. When we started trying 15mths ago (been thinking about trying alot longer) it never entered our heads that it would take this long and would have to go through all those horrible tests and be on drugs.
We was alos saying how ironic it is, how i was on the pill of 4yrs, sometimes used condoms, and once had to have the morning after pill (i was 16, and we had just got together) and now i find out that i dont even ovulate and had no chance to getting pregnant, strange isnt it??
Everybody i know have kids and they defo take them for granted, Like you said we would never agree about feeds or nappy changes, i cant wait!

xxbabyxx100 - Its horrible that the doc wont help you yet. Good luck with the gym and losing weight and i hope things get better for you soon xxx

im seriously thinking bout changing my docs coz its the same record everytime i c her no support or nothing ive come to the conlusion with her that if u have a long term problem she dont wanna no
thanx jess x n will keep ya posted when me n ma hubby started this long rollercoaster we thort we get pg no problem im getting to the stage that im looking in to other ways for us to have a baby cant wait to have 1 i have a nephew who is 2yrs old i love him to bits n cant wait to have 1 of my own