Im sure this rings true for lots of us hon,
Its werid i read about so many lovely hubby's on here, and my hubby is also fab, so kind and thoughful, it seems so unjust that the loveliest couples struggle so much when they would make great parents (i include myself in this :lol
seriously though, it does seem that way, prehaps it helps that if youve faced infertility you start to think about what matters, you dont take each other for granted cos you start thinking " will we still be okay if we end up just us" and also you have to be kind to each other cos life is tough enough.
I know lots of my freinds with children have crappy boyfreinds/ husbands who take them for granted and well bascially are rather selfish. I know that when our time comes we will make the most of every moment, im not saying life will be rosey, but i can guarentee, you wont catch us arguing who's turn it is to do the night feed!
I think your is a lovely post, pleased your feeling happy, and the BD is back on track!
Gem x